Meme1504

Hello I was banded back in March of 2008. I Have not been diag with pcos but it has been brought up several times and my past gyno just said here is some BC try this. Which that turns me into a not so nice person. SO I cant take them. I finnally went to one who really listend and cared and she thinks I have it. She is sending me to a endoconologist takes a while to get into this one but I will see her in MAY. But I am one who has had a terrible time at the band working for me. SO I am not sure if this is related or not. Yes I have lost some weight. But seems its not cause of the band and its more of a mind thing. The weight loss is not great as my Dr keeps telling me look at what your eating etc. I sorta am . My portions are cut down etc. And the scale still dont budge. Not sure if its the band not working or the pcos. And in my other post I may be getting a second opinion from another DR. As I am getting more and more discouraged.

Well I was banded back in March of 2008. Lost about 20 lbs before on my own . You know the liquid diet. So i got banded had alot of issues and no communication with my doc until 2 weeks after surgery. I had problems after the surgery, my dr wouldnt even see me as she told me to go to the emergency room if I need to be seen. I was in such pain for almost a month so badly I slept on the couch and was on double strenght percs which I had to wean myself off of. Yes I am rambling now. So I got my first fill 6 weeks after surgery and it was like only 1.4 cc. I think . Then had to wait another 6 weeks even though I felt nothing. So each time I went back a pound or so lost ..And slowly giving me a little at a time for the fills. Last time I went it I was kinda depressed as I feel I have done all the work on my own. Yes I was told this is a tool and only a tool but shouldnt the tool have worked by now. Its really odd cause as of last year my insurance changed and now she has me coming in every month. And sometimes she is like oh I dont think you need a fill you are not working hard enough at it. I feel like saying I didnt go through hell for me to just give up> I joined a gym and eat healthy I try . But like us all if diet worked for us we wouldnt have had to go through this surgery. She really botherd me as she said oh you got to think if you are sneaking m and ms in the bedroom or eating grinders. I dotn even do that so why does she sterio type me. I am at I think around 5 cc in my band. The last fill was about 1 1/2 month ago, I had to cancel out my month fill as my copay is 40 and she may not give me another fill and just to say hi its not worth it. This is my problem and questions I have. Is my band really working for me...Is it right that I only feel it with chicken ,pork ,and bread. And when I do feel it its lots or pressure nto a fullness. And I do not stay not hungry. Like I can get tightness then in half hour hungry again> Not as though I eat again but dam its a fight. When I got my last fill that day I can barely get anything down but now its just like normal. Yes I get kids meals when I go out to eat. I feel i am fighting this all times. I am doing most of the work still struggling with it. I try the protein and still feel unsatisfied. Trust me I have my cheat days but mayeb a 100 calorie pack or 2 and feel guilty for it. I wonder if my band is correct still on my stomach . Maybe the pouch is not small enough. I had a hernia too and she was going to repair it but when she got in there she said it was not big and would be ok. Its like you were right there why didnt you fix it I was thinking to get another opinion on my band,I know 2 other people that got it done through her and same thing happend. With them , They say she dont like giving fills and their weight loss to has been not good. I just dont know what to do. I have lost about 45 lbs but its a loosing battle at this point and I dont want to give up but its hard. Thank you any advice would be great.

When I get my fill that day I will gurgle. The only problem I have the rest of the time is almost like a hicup. I explain it as a clogged drain pipe and the air is bubbling up. My Dr said to drink water slowly. But I find this happens everyday and pretty much all day. My nickname at work is sqeaky and I have not hit my sweet spot yet.

Is it me or is other getting the same feed back from others. I got banded in March. My Dr moves very slow at the fills and in the beginning the fills were every 6 weeks and they were not a lot. Even if you did not feel filled you have to wait till your next apt. She feels that you should not let the band do all the work and you need to train your mind too.So until a few months ago I really did not feel the fills. Yes some. And yes it helped. But a lot of my weight was done on my own. Again struggling. I now have joined the gym and she at my last apt was like I don't think you need a fill. I am like umm yah. Make the band work this is why I went through all this and trust me and I am sure you all now its not a easy road . Some things I have heard and dealt with and it makes me upset,discouraged that others don't understand how hard it is. I have lost almost 42lbs and its been pretty much on my own so far. I am also at 4.6 on my band. 1. You should be taking off the weight like crazy 2.not sure why you have not lost much weight it that's all you eat . 3.I cant really tell a difference in the pictures. Must be the clothes you are wearing. 4, best one yet I hear it over and over again by my husband which is also overweight. YOU CHEATED i get told.

Hello and I was banded March 14th 2008. I too was very frustrated in the beginning . My Dr only gives fills every 6 weeks and not much at a time. As I have seen on here ,I guess it is all Dr's preference and how they feel the band should work for you. At my first fill pretty much I was like wow I can still eat the same as I did before the surgery and my weight was not coming off like it did pre-op and right after surgery. I was at a stand still. I am loosing inches now. Which the Dr explained that this is good.You are on a higher protein diet so you can gain muscle which weighs more then fat. She also told me do not let the scale rule you keep up what you are doing. I too do a lot of reading here I see a lot of people say it takes a while to get your sweet spot in your fills. So even though frustrated I hung on. I have received my second fill a few weeks ago. I now have 2.6 in my band. I notice a change already and have slowed down eating a lot. I guess the fills they say there is no set science to it. So if you go in and say look i can eat what I could before and I am hungry then they will give you more then someone who is getting full and staying that way. I also started walking , I found this is the key. I am feeling good once again. Loosing some more pounds. I didn't believe this would work either. I was like you. But keep your head up. It will come.

I am from MA also. I got banded in March of this year. If you like to chat I am open to it. I had my surgery done in Providence RI. I love the band now and would not have second thoughts if I had to do it all over again.

I also was banded in March. I only have 2.4 cc in my band. My Dr is very cautious at giving big fills. Gets me very discouraged, I had lost 10 on a diet on my own,then 10 pre-op diet then 20 after. And I to am at a stand still on the scale. i have noticed my clothing size has change and differences in my appearance not in the scale. The Dr told me don't let the scale rule you. I am hoping by the next fill I get my sweet spot as they all call it. I noticed already that this fill has tightened mine more which I only had 1.6 in before. And I have to wait 6 weeks in between fills. Very frustrating.

I take the flintstones and have a hard time to remember to take them .Since we are on subject of vitamins. Why exactly do we have to take chewables. When we can take any other pill in the book even a 800mg Motrin which is horse size. I am confused.

I rarely ate breakfast before. So its very hard for me to eat. I eat either a protein shake or a protein bar. I found some nice bars from walmart high in protein and I think only 189 calories. And under 5.00 a box. I know you say you can eat those but I said it for other just in case. Also the EAS shakes from there a really good. They come in individual little boxes for easy on the go.

I got my 2nd fill about a week ago. I asked a few more questions this time as I was really confused on why everyone was getting their fills sooner then me. She has me go back every 6 weeks. And she said cause she dont want me in the red zone. I also asked her about the band I have and she told me this time how much she put in and what I had. I had 1.6 fill the first time this time I had 2.4. Not much of a difference. I do feel slight restriction when I eat. But still not tight enough ..I guess all Drs are different in what they think is right.

I keep reading others that have fills every 2-4 weeks. My surgery date was March 14th of this year. I have only received 1 fill and getting very very discouraged.I called my Dr around the 3rd week and said it was not working. They said it may take the full 6 weeks to work. Hmm. I think the amount of fluid they put in should be felt that day. I wouldn't think it would all of a sudden tighten on its own. I am going to see her on Monday. Yes I have lost quit a bit but that was all preop and post op dieting NOT the band working or helping me. I am not sure if I should ask her why she is the minority and only gives fills every 6 weeks. One of my theories is that cause the fills are part of the surgery she don't get paid for them like a insurance new patient or other procedures that need to be done. So she don't like to have the fills take alot of time in her schedule. In the beginning of all this after the surgery I saw some issues starting with the office I go too. I saw her preop then never saw her again till 2 weeks later. I called the office with some problems and all I was told is to go to the emergency room. She would not see me or even talk to me on phone. I was left in the dark with it.