I'm pre-banded....
I gotta say that after reading 1 page about the band, I certainly don't see it as a "magic pill".
The hardest part about losing weight is getting your mind/brain to realize that you don't need the amount of food that we eat. The band simply enforces that fact but I can't believe that it takes away the fight that goes on in our heads with food.
If our mind's had that control over our bodies than most of us wouldn't be in this position.
Maybe your experience of weight loss will be easy and that would be great and your friend could have a positive experience through you. But I personally think the argument that I'll have in my head will try to get the better of me and my band will fight back....that's not easy or magic. Food is my comfort even when I don't need it.
Have your friend think about "why" she hasn't lost weight on her own...minus a "magic pill". Maybe food is her comfort or her mind can't get around the fact that she must portion control. Non-the-less our thoughts can control us and mine have lead me to the point of needing some help with my weight.:cry Not an easy thing to deal with at all.
Anita
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