Kamica, yes there is some nervousness. For me it was the fear of what if I fail this time too. It is a surgery, so there are risk involved and that is scary. But being overweight, unable to do things with my husband and children, always feeling as if people were staring at me, or no matter how much my outfit cost I still did not look good, were all worst for me. Pray on it, discuss with your doctors and support system. For me my support is my husband and I discussed all my fears with him and we looked at them all an determine the sugery was still the best choice. It is a life style changes. After the sugery there may be foods you can not eat, there could be complications. You still have work to do. All of those things have to be considered. Hope this helps.