I am keeping quiet about my surgery until ive had it. Only a few select people know. Just because I come from an obese family and I’m the only one who is doing some thing about my weight. I am 22 have 2 kids and a loving and supportive husband. And I am doing this because I want to be healthy for my kids. Looks are a bonus. My mom has always said something about my weight although she is heavy set as well. She knows about my weightloss journey and has the opportunity to do it as well as she has the same insurance as me (tricare) that covers the surgery, but I don’t think she’s really on board with it. Every time I talk about it you can kindve tell she’s jealous I don’t know why. But I just tend to stay quiet about it for that reason.