Lunabeane

For a couple of months I could only eat sashimi but now i can have a roll every once in a while. I still feel more comfortable eating the sashimi though. I've never had a problem getting anything down but depending on how tight I am, ones more enjoyable than the other. I don't think you'll have a problem.

Oh man...I've never had a problem with my period...even with PCOS. I have always gotten my period every 28 days...UNTIL NOW! I've had my period five times in 2 months. I went to see my ob/gyn two weeks ago and she said that it was normal and went on to explain that the drastic fluxuation in estrogen levels causes it and will eventually stablize. I thought it was going to start again yesterday, but I only spotted for a few hours.

My Drs. (both surgeon and gp) said nothing but liquid tylenol/tylenol in pill form or narcotics. I've not taken anything but ultram/tylenol/vicodin since surgery.

I attribute my success and my overall health up until now to following every word that my doctor told me regarding the post-op diet. Not one thing entered my mouth that was not pre-approved by my Dr. and Nurse Practioner. I don't begrudge anyone for making mistakes or for saying that they were OK when they didn't follow the Drs. orders, but I know that if I would have strayed once that it would have been very difficult for me to get back on track. Now...I'm not trying to be a righteous bitch at all...because I've made some poor decisions over the past month and I've paid for it with a slower weight loss, but during the healing process I was a super duper good girl.

Creamed Soups were on my post-op diet after 7 days of post-op clear fluids. I detested canned Soups so made some great high Protein creamed soups and blended the hell out of them.

I know it's hard but nothing is worse than undoing all of the work that was just put into your body but in a couple of months this will all be past you.

My port is very noticeable. It looks like half of a tennis ball sitting on my stomach. I have days when my port is tender but I wouldn't call it pain. I think your decision to seek a second opinion is a good one. I hope everything is ok.

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Well...all is well now. I went back to mushies for a couple of days and now I'm feeling fine.

Oh man...I'm nervous. I had my fourth fill on Friday afternoon. I took it easy, as usual, but decided that I was going to try some crock pot

pot roast/carrots for dinner. The first bite went down fine...the second...not so much.

I slimed and threw up for about 20 minutes...still wouldn't go down. Took a walk...threw up in the bushes. Came home and took a hot shower and it finally went down.

I laid down and took a bit of a nap for a couple of hours. When I woke up I ate some cottage cheese. That went down fine and made my belly feel better. However, I have this mild churning in my stomach...like morning sickness churning. It's not anything catastrophic but I definately feel blah!

Is it normal to feel the after affects of being stuck for hours afterwards? I don't believe that I did any damage to the band...because I specifically felt the food dislodge and go through. However, I've never once been nauseous since I've been banded and it scares me.

Oh...and talk about getting to the point where you really DO have to chew more than ever. When I swallowed that second bit I knew it was going to be bad!

Talk me down!

I eat the Cabot Vermont White Cheddar 50% reduced fat cheese. I ate it during the mushy stage and still eat two squares with almonds for lunch.< /p>

I'm stuck...I'm down 41 pounds and haven't lost anything in 3 weeks. I'm pissed. I'm going to aerobics two days a week and my clothes are getting baggier but the weight just isn't coming off. I'm proud of the 41 pounds...but it's so frustrating that it's not coming off even with a strict diet.

My first two fills didn't hurt at all...but this last one felt very uncomfortable. Also...my port has always been quite noticable. It gets more and more pronounced as I lose weight.

I've been missing in action for a few weeks...so I decided to join my May Bandster buddies again. I'm currently down 42 pounds. It's been fluxuating for a few weeks and that's so frustrating to me. I signed up for Water aerobics starting on Monday. Hopefully that will push me through this plateau.

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I painted my toenails...and I was able to pull my feet all the way up! I know it's small but it felt so good to actually paint my toenails like a girl!

I had to buy all new blazers for work. I went to Macy's and bought a size 14! Down from a size 22.

I am still buying my pants at Lane's but I'm wearing the 2's now. My caboose and stomach are still Lane Bryant material...but the legs are really baggy and the petites are too long.

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You DO have a situation! Teens are tricky...that's for sure. I've often found, with my students, that it's easier and more productive to tap into their strengths rather than focus on their weaknesses. You might want to try to sit with the child...with is father present...and see if he has a rationale for exhibiting the behavior that he is. My thoughts are that he might feel as if he doesn't belong and that he feels disconnected. I agree that he might be bored...when kids are bored they have a tendency to get themselves in trouble. In addition, if he is not getting the feedback that he needs...he's going to go for any type of feedback, whether it be positive or negative.

If it were me, I would try hiring the teen to keep your children occupied. I know it sounds crazy! However, you are in the optimal position to control the situation and regulate everyones behavior. You need to set very clear expectations and make the teen follow through or you will change the rules. He cannot and should not ever be the one to make the rules...that's the role that the adult plays. Once you determine if the teen is capable of caring for your children...under your supervision...you could ask him if watching the kids for a couple of hours a day would be something that he would be interested in. If it is...then you need to say that your home is off limits and that he will receive payment for his job. You might also incorporate some PC/Video time in your house when you are home as part of the paymet.

I imagine the conversation going something like this,

I will pay you $5hr to watch the kids during work hours. You have to keep track of the hours that you watch the kids and the activities that you engage in during the time that you watch them. During that time you are not permitted in my home, but are allowed to be in your grandparents home or in the field. For 1 hour a night you are allowed to come to our home and use the PC or play video games. If you break the rules or enter our home and rifle through our things, then you will not be permitted to be around my children or in my home. I know that you are a good kid and I would love for you to have a positive relationship with my children, your cousins, but I cannot allow you to teach my children to disrespect me. There are rules and regulations in our home. If you want to be a part of our home then I want to give you a chance to prove yourself. I've waited so long to get to know you and the kids really love you.

Once you have established that he is interested in the "job" you are going to have to come up with a series of activities that he will have to engage the kids in on a daily basis. You might have craft time, outdoor games, reading to the kids, movies that they can watch together, kid friendly recipes, science experiments using stuff found in the home, or even some supplemental summer school activities that he can help your kids with.

I have two teenagers sit with my son several times a week while I go to work or grade papers. I always have a list of things that they are to do with my son so that he isn't stuck in front of the television...I make them work for their money. Heck...one time I make them make a slip and slide in the yard! When I get home from work I informally quiz my son about the things that he did with the sitter that day. If he didn't do at least a couple of things on the list then I will talk with the sitter.

If you are interested...I have tons of stuff for kids to do.

I too, am a very old school parent and teacher. However, you could potentially create a great situation in your house...where he feels like he is accomplishing something, and your kids are occupied throughout the day.

I would get her to the ER. I had significant pain after 8 days but it was manageable by pain meds. Tramadol is not an appropriate pain management drug after surgery...especially if she has low pain threshold. Is she drinking enough Water? What country is she in?

I don't exercise. I know that I have to...and I intend on it in the near future but I just can't motivate to do so. I have know doubt that I could find the time but I just don't have it in me at the end of the day. It's on my list of things to do!

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Bea1128............220.........199.......1.5.....

Babs0101...........185.........170.......0.......

blesdbyonmzur......159.........148.......4.......

BTTRFLI1432........221.........210.......0.......

Bunkey1965.........209.........205.......3.......

Chocolate_Snaps....260.........240.......0.......

Darr5380...........170.........150.......0.......

erikadawn.................199..............175............0..........

FloridaGirl........235.........215.......0.......

HeatherO...........168.........155.......4.......

JennyPoo...........169.........159.......0.......

KarenG.............162.........158.......4.......

KathyStrick........305.........290.......0.......

Leslie2Lose........223.........209.......1.......

Lunabeane..........212.........200.......9.......

Luu2008............219.........189.......9.......

Luv2Laugh..........232.........212.......0.......

luvinke............206.........190.......0.......

mamato3............199.........184.......2.......

mcgreen............189.........175.......0.......

mdgarcia31665......225.........220.......0.......

mominlv13..........314.........300.......3.......

MSnika3............228.........204.......4.......

NANAbanded.........225.........199.......4.......

NukeChik...........225.........199.......2......

Ollie..............242.........210.......0.......

Redtulips..........191.........180.......3.......

Renewedhope........174.........155.......5.......

ronni_NC...........243.........220.......0.......

slgandera..........185.........173.......0.......

StartingOver.......220.........205.......10.......

want_so_bad........170.........155.......0.......

Sadie..............216.........199.......4.......

I don't pee when I sneeze anymore!!! LOL

I know that's not what you were looking for, but I've got terrible allergies!

You look awesome! Congratulations!

I'm two months out as well. It seems like we are losing about the same...which makes me happy!

I really don't see the weightloss on myself so I'm considering taking a set of photos tomorrow to see if I can tell a difference that way.

I've had several gastric bypass patients say things to me...as if their way is the only way. You have to make the choice that is right for you! I know that I would have been unhappy with gastric bypass, as I would have constantly been worrying about being sick.

I'm glad you found the forum...it's nice to have supportive people around.

I keep track of everything that I eat. I use the daily plate to keep trac of everything and keep my daily caloric intake between 800-1000 calories. If I didn't I would never lose a pound. As of today I'm down 30lbs. and I've only had one fill. I'm convinced that keeping track is the only think that is making the difference...as I'm still too damn lazy to start an exercise program!

You'll want to make sure to keep on top of the situation as if you allow your gallbladder to function as a deminished rate you could hurt your bile duct as well. I held off on having my gallbladder removed and had to have stents(sp) put in my bile duct because my gallbladder wasn't emptying and backing up into my bile duct. Also, you'll know when it's time to have it out...because you won't think that you're having a heart attack...you'll think that your dying right then and there. It was far worse than childbirth in my opinion and something that I'm grateful was able to be rectified via surgery.

If your Dr. says take a wait and see approach then I would take his word for it...but you'll know when you can't leave your house for 10 days in a row because you're stuck in the bathroom, that it's time to have it out.

Feel better.