3loves

They are not always thread killers initially, but I hate TROLLS. Come on trolls get a real life.

Way to Go Janey!!

Shout out from me too!! Your in our prayers. Give us a quick line when you get a chance my friend!!!

Congrats on your new Harley. Be sure to post pics. What color? We drove by a Harley (could not begin to tell you what it was) yesterday and I told my DH that I would like to have one someday. There are a lot of bikes here in IN and they have a big convention in Fort Wayne every year. I guess that will have to wait till my kids are older and we have more $$. :phanvan Poster Child ~ Love the Boxster!! I love seeing all these rides....it gives me a chance to dream.

Hi, my name is ThreeLoves and I'm addicted to my scales. I can't help myself. I weigh in the morning, afternoon, & evening. Hey Marcy, we must be related. Can't deny I could use a straight jacket. So, why don't I always lose weight after a good poop? :Banane27: I usually lose after I get home from the gym....I attribute it to sweat. I've been doing this for years now. Even b4 I got the band. I guess there are worse things I could be addicted to, right? I feel I'm in control more knowing what the scales say. It doesn't depress me, it makes me work harder. There have been times I've been discouraged, don't get me wrong. Most of the time it gives me strength.

Great idea Pinkylee!! I am thankful I didn't eat the cookies or brownies I took to church this week (there was a funeral). This is the first time I've baked sweets since I've been banded. The smell reminded me of an old friend. I did take a nibble of a brownie crumb and then spit it out in a napkin.....was afraid of it not going through the band. It was empowering to have control. I know I can do this and the Lord gives me strength every day!!!

Hey, where are all you racers? Karen, Kim, Missy???? As you know, I don't have much to brag about these days. Tony is holding his own and only making the news when he shows a bit of his temper. I love road courses as you can imagine. I think all our guys are up in the top 10 to start. Is anyone a Kurt fan? Not meant to offend if anyone is, but I can't believe he's out front. I hope it won't be for long. GO SMOKE & ZIPPY!!!

Yesterday we started swim lessons for my boys (ages 4 & 5) at the YMCA. I had orientation for the fitness center during their class and arrived just about the time they were finishing up. My kids were at different ends of the pool. I saw my youngest get out so I walked over to get him. When I turned around to go get the older one, he was GONE!! I asked where my child was & the lifeguard that had been helping didn't know and she asked the teacher who was still in the Water hanging on the side. She said she had no idea. I didn't panic and followed the lifeguard into the youth locker room. There he was with other kids in the shower. Thank God he still has his trunks on!! I sternly told him to NEVER go into the locker room and stay by the pool until mommy or daddy comes to get him. The panic didn't hit me until last night and the fear of God came over me that my son could have been at the bottom of that pool for all that teacher knew. Understand this was not a teenager as an instructor, but a woman at least in her 40's and come to find out a lifeguard. Needless to say, I spoke to the director at the Y twice today. She was very understanding and I told her that I expect the teacher to know where my children are at all times until they are safely back with their parents. She agreed and said all the kids should go to the bleachers until the parents come. She also promised to address this with the teacher. She offered to allow me to stay and observe since they usually ask the parents to leave the pool area after the first lesson. You bet I'm staying and keeping my eyes on my kids and my workouts will have to wait for a different time (b4 or after their class). I am also meeting the director face to face tomorrow. I felt like my concerns were really taken seriously as this lady is the mother of 3 children herself. Regardless, I think I learned a valuable lesson today that NO ONE will care for my children and watch out for them any more than their parents or grandparents. BTW, this same teacher took this class to the 10 ft area of the pool the first day. My son does not know how to swim or float. Even though there were only 3 kids in this class, I still feel a little uncomfortable with this. The director said that all the kids will go to the deep end sometime during their session to help with the fear of the deep water. I still don't understand this. Does anyone have experience with swim lessons or lifeguarding that can relate to this philosophy? I want my kids to know how to swim and don't really want to pull them from the class. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!!!

:update: We had our final lesson last night and got the report cards. Guess what? That goofy teacher (the one I had problems with) checked ALL the boxes as NOT COMPLETE for my son. My other son had COMPLETE on ALL of his. Of course, I walked right over to the supervisor to clarify b/c I know he's been doing great. Another mother walked over from the same class with the same concern. Come to find out, she had marked NOT COMPLETE on all her students, even those in a later class. Surely she was mixed up on her columns. NOPE, we approached her and she said she didn't do those things with the students and maybe someone else did, she didn't know. She only concentrated on the strokes. Let's see.....we're talking Pool Safety NOT COMPLETE, Letting go of edge and swimming back NOT COMPLETE, Enjoy Games NOT COMPLETE, Shows respect for others NOT COMPLETE. Well, the director walked in about this time and got involved (the teacher was in the pool for the lesson at this time). She took one look at ALL the reports and said they were incorrect and we can pick them up on Monday. I confirmed that this so-called teacher will NOT be teaching again. I wasn't mad or upset b/c I really think this lady is just thick in the head. Some people just can't help it. :tired She is just NOT COMPLETE yet I guess. I ran into her in the locker room a while later and smiled and said hello. She smiled back. Life goes on.

My DH actually suggested the band for both of us. I told him only if I get to go first!! He just changed jobs so we need to do some research on the insurance stuff for him. We're looking at next year for him getting the band. This way he gets a preview of what to expect. want2lose ~ Perhaps you could introduce your DH to this site. I have shared countless things I've learned here....even the bad stuff. It's good to have the big picture. I hope he comes around and finds peace with your decision.

Double D's and a bra extension did the trick for me. There is nothing better than the Second Skin Satin. I swear, it's like your not even wearing anything at all!! They discontinued their larger sizes but you can find them on E-Bay from time to time. I have one that should be thrown out. I just keep wearing it and my boobs are happy.

Oooo....this is so great to see.....thank you!!! I noticed your expression changed when the needle went in. What is painful? I hope to schedule my first fill soon.

You know, lzimm36 may be on to something here.....I was checked for a fistula a couple of years ago. I gave birth to a big baby the year prior. This could be the reason for the rectal blood during your period.....the blood could pass through the fistula. I guess there are so many things it could be. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope to hear from you soon as to what the doc said.....keep in touch!!

I feel for you. Septic problems of any kind are not fun. When was the last time you had your septic tank cleaned? It may very well be the septic. We had our plumbing back up last year (our septic was just cleaned the year b4) and got very worried that we were looking at a new leach bed. Trust me, you don't want to replace a leach bed.....we're talking major bucks. Luckily, it was our D-box going into the leach bed that needed replaced. It was actually crumbling. I think it was under $700 for all, can't exactly remember. Good luck and let us know what you find out.

Silly girl. You can PM K@t and she will send it to you. I get full sometimes too.....wished they offered more space for PM's.

Totally unbelievable and unethical!!! I sure hope your regular doc considers not using him again as a backup. Sounds to me like this so-called doc has some personal issues that he needs to deal with. Why would anyone in their right mind even think of such a thing? He must get off my watching/hearing about people suffering. I'm with mysherrijo ~ Let's go get him. Maybe a potato up his tailpipe?

DeAnn ~ So glad to hear your dad got to come home. How has he been since coming home? Keep in touch!! Teresita ~ You are one of the sweetest people on this site. Thank you for always uplifting us with prayers and your words of encouragement!! I am thankful the Lord is active in your heart. Pinkylee ~ Will pray for your mom & the docs to find out the cause of the pain. Did this start in her later years or has she always been addicted to chocolate? I haven't seen too many elderly people eat sweets although my FIL can't seem to get enough sugar and he has diabetes. My kids are totally wired & spoiled when they visit. I'm sure it's difficult with your mom being 78.....it's hard to convince older people to change their habits.

My DH recently traded his Impala for a 2006 Dodge Stratus. It gets better gas mileage and you can use the E85 gas. Yes, it's cheaper but the mileage really goes down when you use the E85. I'm not convinced it worth at this point. This is what my DH uses to mow the grass......

Drews & Linda ~ You both are making me jealous!!! What a tremendous job you have been doing on the Sept Challenge. :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: I came home and weighed after my workout and lost 1 lb somehow....maybe sweat?? Oh well, I'm convinced I need a fill. I was on hold for the receptionist today when a call beeped in and it was my mom so I answered and didn't get to call them today to schedule a fill. I'm getting excited b/c this will be my first. I'm a "fill virgin". I will be able to understand the term "sweet spot". How is everyone else doing on their Sept Challenge? There is not one person that could be doing worse than I am.....speak up and let us know how you all are doing. On a side note about laminate flooring......I would definitely pay for installation if you are able. It looks so nice and it much easier to keep clean than the carpet. We still have some planks lay to finish the living room. We have just been too busy to get it done. Nothing like starting a project only to finish 2 wks later. That's home improvement for you.

Hello fellow losers!!! I'm reporting in for the Sept Challenge. Would you believe I stayed the same?!? Man, I thought for sure I would report at least the pound I lost last week. It is my TOM, but this is getting old. I talked to my surgeon's office and scheduled my first fill. I'm keeping my original follow-up for 9-18 and getting a fill at the same time. WAIT, I'm going to call them back and schedule it sooner. Why wait? It's time for my first fill. I have been playing with the same few lbs for weeks now. Can't wait to feel "real" restriction. I do have an NSV though......I'm now wearing some of my smaller sexier bras. Why do the boobs go first? I hope to wear my Victoria's Secret soon. They are my favorite. :biggrin1: Alicia ~ Way to go!!! You are a braver woman than I am. Keep us updated on your training. I started at the Y and will enjoy it more now with my Ipod. Hey Kim, where do you stand on a fill? Oops....I'm out of time. Need to leave for swim lessons. Where does the time go? Great job everyone!!! Thanks for keeping me motivated!!!

Hi folks....here it is....the new thread for our May Crew July Chat. Happy 4th of July to everyone!!! I wish everyone a safe and fun holiday!!!

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YEAH....this is so fun!! Thanks again K@t!!

Thanks Linda!!! They are sure a handful at times. I feel like I have twins. Do you ever feel like your so busy you don't even have time for living? Gosh, it has been crazy around here and I haven't been able to post much. We installed (still have to finish) a laminate flooring in our living room, hosted in-laws, church, appts and the list goes on. Enough belly-aching.....I stayed the same last Thurs for the Sept Challenge. I have lost 1 lb since Fri, but I'll keep that for this week. Sometimes I wonder why my body seems to want to hold on to each and every pound. I've been going to the YMCA and my DH swears I'm getting smaller. I just want to see it on the scales too. :phanvan I will spend some time reading and catching up. Skimming through, it seems everyone is doing well. Drews ~ Holy cow!! I'm so sorry about he possible leak. This gives me a heavy heart....I will pray for you. Please let us know as soon as you get some info!! Diana aka Lotsofkids ~ It's good to see you post on your home thread!!! Of course, your always in my prayers. Hope your doing well and pick a surgeon soon.

I am starting at the YMCA next week and would like to gain some knowledge of what to expect for a workout for an obese person. What is your workout routine? Do you use a combo of cardio and weights or other like swimming? Do you have a trainer? What are the benefits? What are good questions I should ask a trainer? Should I have a trainer experienced in working with WLS patients? We really can't afford a full-time trainer, but I was thinking I could purchase a few sessions to get me started and build from there. When I am ready to move on, perhaps another session with a trainer. I would LOVE to hear some feedback on this and I thank you all in advance!!