I'm looking into the Lap Band/Gastric Bypass for myself. Trying to decide which to do, and who to do it. Also wondering if anyone has any suggestions? I lean toward the Lap Band....but am afraid I'm too heavy for that, or am I? How likely will I be to keep it off...what am I gonna do with skin afterward....how long I'll be off work, is this a realistic thing to do? How will it be different than any other "diet" I've ever tried and didn't succeed at keeping the weight off......lots of what if's, .......i know that "if" a frog had a pistol, he wouldn't be afraid of a snake.....nervous, anxious.....stressed.......fat!!!!!