MichaelG1969

I am a little over 4 years post-op Had the RNY. Was 600 pounds now about 205. Surgery was great and everything has been a lot better since except my sex drive. I have been married for 22 years and our sex life has always been great. But ever since surgery I have had a total lack of interest in sex. It concerns both my wife and I. We went from 4-5 times a week before surgery (yes even when I weighed that much) to now maybe 1-2 times a month. Wife is a willing partner anytime but I am NEVER in the mood anymore. Anyone else experienced this? I know it will decrease with age but I am 48 and she is 43 so it shouldn’t be gone in me just yet. PS Just has testosterone tested and it was in normal range...

Not really question me just more concerned that it is all her and a lack of interest in her which can’t be farther from the truth. We have been married 23 years and I love her more everyday. I try to tell her that it has nothing to do with her but she still feels it does.

My wife swears it started right after my surgery so that would be 4 years now

My surgery was over 4 years ago if they have not leveled off by now I am in trouble...lol