Omg no way that's horrible, I know how you feel though. I have a "friend" say to me once, you're so beautiful inside and out if only you lost weight ... I was like what if I did! I'd still be the same person. She says you could meet a nice guy lol I've had chances even at my large size that's never been an issue just met a'holes. Some of us aren't lucky enough to be able to eat whatever we want all the time and remain a smaller size I used to say to her lol Well not even she can anymore lol Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-N920A using BariatricPal mobile app