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And we miss you too[emoji8] Come back for a visit if you can![emoji558] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Sounds like I'd better join Amazon Prime. I'd been postponing applying but Bariatric Time siunds like a good time. Thank you![emoji13] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Thanks Fluffy for the info, I'll look that book up at my local library too. As a pre-diabetic in the "there but for the Grace of God go I" stage I want to read more always. Praying my future surgery averts full-blown diabetes but PCP warns me I'm at the edge of Slippery Slope, one of the reasons he's as gung ho,about my future RnY as me. [emoji14] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

And there are a few in a humorous vein. Late MIL told people her friends went to " Extensive" Care to rehabilitate. A story from my healthcare days: Mildred(patient) - Would you please tell the nurse I need Milk of Amnesia? Me' Mildred, do you mean Milk of Magnesia? Midred-No,silly! I mean Milk of Amnesia! My bowels forgot to work! Sunny Days and Smiles today Everyone![emoji13] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

And good luck,[emoji13]good health[emoji13] and smooth surgeries for each and every one of us![emoji12] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

I saw earlier in this thread protein levels were discussed. I suspect that some doctors believe in a set level "All my patients must have 100!" while others say " Patient A at 200 lb and 5ft 2in may need different than Patient B at 300lb and 5ft 8in, I want to insure proper health and no loss of muscle tissue" I hope my own will think like the 2nd doctor when it comes my time. Although many of us go through the same stages etc we are all individuals and should be treated in that manner.[emoji7] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Try plant based or vegan varieties, the whey,is there as a protein source so you would to replace with one of the others. I'm sure there are vegan members on BP who can give you brand names. I would probably start with Whole Foods, GNC, Vitamin Shoppe or your local health food store. My late son was not lactose intolerant but casein intolerant. He could never use the Elmers Glue family for that reason., many people do not realize casein is the foundation for their products.[emoji275] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Can I watch Can I watch? Scoot over Fluffy, the fat may still hit the [emoji91], you don't want to miss this![emoji41] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

I also am presurg, have stated depression in its ugly face, but guess what? I'm going to feel less depressed after than before. More of mine has to do with a pervasive sense of[emoji8] unworthiness, I have felt like I didn't deserve surgery, that the world agreed with that, my surgery will be a reaffirmation of worthy-ness, a confirmation that I matter and that someone believed enough in me to grant this wish. Many people wade in the doldrums [emoji19]post surgery, I on the other hand will be overjoyed. And my current state will be changed.[emoji13][emoji14] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

My deciding moment for surgery May or May Not be the same as yours. That doesn't matter to me as much as the realization "My life has a chance to be better with this surgery than without it. In a choice between life and continual pain until death, I choose life. In a choice between No hope and a tool to regain a better future, I commit myself to a better future. I will not quibble about the struggle for my change of lifestyle, my change of diet, for the benefits outweigh any real or imagined risks. I choose life!"[emoji12] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Hopefull,do you need an older perspective? I am 72, [emoji70]going to have RnY surgery within a few months and anticipating it being great. Yes I too read the" coulda" list, like the others said,there is more danger walking downstairs and you might fall, you could choke on your Breakfast, get run over by a bus or car, none of that has happened yet? Good, and the likely-ness of any of the others happening, even less likely. Life is a gamble but with all the advances in science and medicine you are holding a winning hand. I too will have my surgery in a teaching hospital, that doesn't worry me because those are the best cutting edge facilities. Shoot when I'm sprawled out, if I can help with their instruction, okay. I'm sure my doctor will have me surrounded with the best of the best, if there are junior doctors they will also be trained well or they won't be allowed to be present. Those bad things you've heard about are more likely to happen to someone my age. Am I concerned? Heck no, my life with surgery will be vastly superior to the life I currently live. I have had arthritis since 25, every bone is or has ached, I have had 2 knee replacements, I have a plate and 12 screws in my upper right arm that fixed a fracture. I have had a bunch of minor breaks that ache, they ache more because I am and have been obese for years. You do get sick and tired of being sick and tired. You have an opportunity to have your body repaired, realigned and made better. Do not wait as long as I have---please. Your skin will go back into shape and smooth out as you lose weight. Mine will probably look like a Shar pei, but guess what, its better to be a loose skinned puppy than lie dead in a casket. I may not have too many more years on this earth but I want to live them healthier fitter and smaller. The trade off for me: surgery and a renewed life vs. obesity and the chance of death? I chose life, [emoji13]my journey started in August 2015, many bumps and twists in the road there,but I'm sticking through to the finish. I feel I can do naught else. If you feel scared,if you feel nervous, talk to me. I have had a lot of life experiences, some scarred me but most have made me stronger. I am a tough old female [emoji70]who's going to win this battle. The world will not vanquish [emoji626]Major General frust8, I will fire every gun and cannon at my disposal until.[emoji606] my war is won[emoji121]. Can you do any less? Come join me if you can.[emoji14][emoji14][emoji14] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

May you establish a good relationship, May you feel a trust in him. May your waiting go by quickly. And most important may you have your surgery, May you recover well and may you have a wonderful healthy future![emoji12] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Mine to add: Late husband : yada yada mute point Me: the word is moot, if it were mute you would have shut up by now![emoji13] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

I always think of it as a cross between a sleeve and a RnY. There is a single opening into the small intestine instead of the 2 on RnY. Hopefully there will be someone respond from that forum that can explain it better. Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Yep you got it perfect. I was in Columbus today, had to consult my lawyer on East Broad Street. When I have my surgery, which I don't have a firm date for, it will be at O.S.U.-Wexner Medical Center.[emoji381] Have next appointment in April[emoji414], I'm transferring records from another bariatric program there(quite a story to tell) and depending on any further requirements , could be Early May but surely before my high school reunion in August, my gut instinct mid May, but the same gut instinct told me to trust the prior program and it was wrong then. I remain committed to obtain my surgery, don't know if I'll have to crawl over broken glass to get it, but for my future health it needs to be done. I'm wandering around with a 46+ BMI[emoji26], I have lost 30lbs from my highest weight but I may have reached a natural set point because although my portions have reduced in size, and I've tried dropping all the bed things like soda, bread and its carbohydrate family like rice and [emoji501]Pasta, I drink flavored no calorie Water or plain water.[emoji477] But the weight loss has slowed down. Maybe I can start replacing meals with Protein Drinks or as the Weather moderates-' walk or exercise more. I also cut out pies, cakes, Cookies never ate that much candy so that was easy to give up. I am trying to be a good little presurg, will I get rewarded soon? Gosh I hope so![emoji68][emoji13] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

The day is finally coming, you'll do great and your future is looking great. Congratulations from a wistful pre surg ME! Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Brookeville777 I'm in central Ohio, actually Mount Vernon, 14miles from Ohio's Geographic Center which is the town of Centerburg. Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

I hear the song playing "this too could be you" and it sounds so extraordinarily sweet.[emoji444] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Let me guess, Illinicare thinks obesity is an avoidable disease, you chose to have it. Ooh that's why people blow places,like that up, sheer frustration. Well Mr Bureaucrats, I have had it for years and it isn't fun. It is a slavemaster that is not easy to.escape. Refusing to cover bariatric surgery is a simplistic answer to a complex multi-faceted problem. But it is cheaper for them this way and,they worship their budget and bottom line[emoji19] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

@atphiladelphia, true Philadelphia Freedom will soon be yours when you can stroll outside without an icecicle forming on the end of your nose. I was hoping now that since spring has sprung Mr Winter would slink off to his dark cave,but it hasn't happened yet, just more snow.[emoji69][emoji300] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Goody Goody Great Balls of Goody! There is joy at angjade2 house today. Do we know a date yet?[emoji7][emoji404] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Watch out for the Sugar Free Peeps! They will make you loose as Farmer Brown's Goose. You will swear they have a Smooth Move Tea base[emoji26][emoji26][emoji26] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Be tender with your tummy. It's been through a lot. While you were slumbering with your peaceful medicated nap, masked people were jabbing him, poking holes in him., running instraments around and through him. Every time he could relax and have his peristalsis, they manipulated something. Poor thing-- he feels swollen, confused and cranky. Be patient, once the swelling goes down, he will feel like it's safe to relax, he'll serve you and serve you well the rest of your days. And you're going to feel so fine you'll take him for another walk.[emoji173] Are you keeping up with your 64 oz of fluid? Might have to call out the big guns m.om colace, Miramax or smooth move tea. Remember the Bible verse "this too shall pass" until then You are running on "full" down there instead of "empty"![emoji68] And,remember we[emoji177]you and you will soon start shining like the bright star you are![emoji293] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

I'm allergic to chocolate, make myself hot regular or herbal tea or carob drink. Use the traditional cocoa recipe which is on rear of Hershey tins. Tweak it by using carob powder(available at Krogers and health food stores) stevia or monkfruit granules instead of sugar or honey, and substitute Fairlife skim or if I'm feeling real froggy 1% milk.[emoji177] Carob in products tastes super similar to milk chocolate, I have made Wacky Cake with it and you would swear it had real cocoa in it. I'm not the bordering on culinary genius of Fluffy Chix but I haven't lived on this earth 72 years without accruing a modicum of skill kitchen-wise.[emoji12] Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app

Make sure you're committed enough by going through such testing. I have been seeking mine since August 2015 I would do anything ,personally,short of selling a kidney, which I could spare since I was born with 3, to receive my surgery. Perhaps I'm so committed I need to be committed to the loony bin. Just put me in the padded area with all the people whose insurances are jerking them around.[emoji26] Although that's not my exact problem I still feel a certain kinship with them. My EGD was last December 2017, done by my gastroenterologist instead of a bariatric or general surgeon. I had absolutely no problems including no sore throat or other discomforts afterwards. Found out I have gastritis in addition to Hector my itty bitty ulcer in the antrum. I am hopeful my future surgery will make him stay asleep and that the gastritis will get better. I'm on Dexilant 60mg every morning. Is it helping? Well the day I missed a dose I was pretty miserable.[emoji26] And I don't have h. pylori so Hector came from excessive NASID usage. Sent from my VS880PP using BariatricPal mobile app