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Frustr8

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  1. Frustr8

    after surgery

    And at first it may not be hunger as much as v your gastric juices diminishing down. Anger and avid production often mimics an hunger sensation.
  2. An AirPot, one of those pressure pans, some way to do Sous Vide, oh I am starting my Christmas Shopping List early! Some of the other things I have heard of here or had recommended turned out so good that I believe you these also may be good things!
  3. Welcome to the fun and always changing side of Bariatrics. Now the things you learned before get put to the test! Most of Us turn out to be very successful, some of the hardestvwork you will ever enjoy doing, but the good lasts clear into your Future! And 99.9% of us- WE ARE SO GLAD TO BE HERE!
  4. Frustr8

    Quotes & Inspiration

    Being a Successful Adult is much like folding a fitted sheet. No one knows the perfect way to do it and this is one of the few things Google can't help with! Wiki-how maybe but Google- nope!
  5. And LT1968 I will celebrate my 1st Surgiversity on September 5th. And I have had a far from typical recovery, starting out, I am very old to have sought Bariatric Surgery, I was 72 years, 8 m9nths and I think 16(just counted up) days old when I received my RNY. I had sought it foe over 3 years, so yes I REALLY WANTED IT! Things started out fine , then I developed some rarer complications, had different interventions, not quite healed yet! So Hon, if anyone regretted surgery, wished they went back to the way before, it should be ME! But a funny thing happened on my way to victory--- I am not sorry. Would I go through it again? Yeah at least 85% sure I would. I started at 365+ pounds, at that point I put my Heavy little Foot down and said "You shall weigh me no more" last bit of spunk in my rapidly breaking- down body. PCP threatened I would be dead by 75, called me a Walking TimeBomb, the fact I had not developed all the diseases in my gene pool did not ensure I wouldn't. Well i might be fail8ng fast but I am a natural redhead, Mama called it Strawberry Blonde but it still is pretty red! And that and natural mid- to Old Age crabbiness, no young whelp not even one with a Medical License is going to get in my face and say "Die, dang you, die!" Since he lives in a gated community so I can't blow his house up, I shall vent my sleen by continuing to live. And a moment of clarity came! I shall seek Bariatric surgery, and I will do it to prove all my nay-sayers wrong! And it was an uphill battle, most programscaround here won't take you above 60, the majority of the rest 70, found a program , went through a program not once but twice, first time through I lost insurance coverage, after attempt #2 surgeon capriciously decided " I don't want to do your surgery!" Still have never deduced what HIS PROBLEM was, got some suspections, but I v am well rid of him ! And his home hospital, where he performed his surgeries? Embroiled in a very extensive LawSuit, quite the talk of this section of Mid-America. There was a doctor employed there, appointed himself the Death Angel & overdosed people to their death, 40 and still growing. Where will it stop? Not until the final total is reached. Oh he will be going away for a very long time when he is finally convicted. How my years is 40 times Life behind bars? Any way Thank God for getting me away from that place! I found a better surgeon at a better hospital,band although I am his oldest patient I intend to be one of the best! And tonight I finally made it below. 200 pounds, 199.4, on Bariatric Pal we call it Onederland, and I know I would never have made here without commitment and my surgery. So Thanks to all who helped, My Dr Needleman especially , he believed in me and gave me this chance! Saved my life? I bel8eve so! Oh I could go on and on singing praises to him, he is not only a skillful surgeon but a heck of a nice guy. And my new motto? THE REST OF MY LIFE WILL BE THE BEST OF MY LIFE! How much longer will I live? No person on earth knows that for certain But I do know it will be so much better! I scarcely know myself, my size of course changed, but so did my appearance. I used to have chipmunk cheeks, now I have an angular one, there is gossip , often denied by my father's people that we have Native American/First Nations ( depending whether you are American or Canadian) well hello the high cheekbones have popped out. Been covered up since babyhood but Whoops there they are! Make everyone a challenge, if you have Wikipedia on your computer or smartphone pull up Peoria people or Peoria tribe. The lady pictured there is the spitting image of my Aunt Minnie, Daddy's sister. You get out the family scrapbook, my Great- great grandfather, yes they had film that long ago, looks just like Iron Eyes Cody, an actor I believe from the Lakota tribe. Oh I have far from sufficent blood to ever be on a tribal role but I find it interesting to be maybe be more initialed to be in Ohio than the average settler family. So I have started resembling dead relatives, some of which were real foodies. It's Almost like" Hiya Mirror! Who do I look like today?" But it is rather fun and I might actually turn out pretty cute! I am definitely a Work in Progress! Fear is natural, you are entering a Brave New World, an undiscovered Land, there may or may not be signposts along the way, but I will promise you UT IS MORE THAN WORTH THE TROUBLE! Come join me on the👣 journey, walk with me a while. And who knows for certain we may each find?😛❤🍀
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    Pre surgery fears

    So So true, glad you made it from larvae to the Beautiful Butterfly we all KNEW you were inside! Have a Beautiful and Blessed Saturday, my friend!😛
  7. Recliner, finally bed, yeah wish my own bed had been adjustable, would have back to bed a lot quicker. Went from having to push myself upright out of the chair, when you have arthritis your body likes freezing in one position m And the next step was wiggling and squirming to the edge to try sitting up before you wet yourself . At 72 both Mother Nature and Father Time curse you and being the possessor of 3 kidneys, a Birthday gift from my parents gene pool, they also were also blessed? with 3 apiece. Means you produce copious urine frequently. Does come handy when a medical person demands an urine sample, never totally dry inside, even when I teeter on dehydration I can get out a teaspoon (15ml) or 2. Sometimes I move fast enough to make it to the Chamber Room, sometimes not. One of my Comical friends gave me a box of Adult Pull-ups, the laugh's on her because sometimes I do wear them! No shame, no blame, oldest Bari-patient is MY. True NAME!
  8. Well I am Proud of you! May you And your Gynae have a long successful professional relationship÷ Have you read Fluffy Chix's post dealing with PCOS? I found it informative, explains some facets of my own WLS and PCOS struggle, yep, another sister out here, chin hair and all!😛🍀👍❤
  9. Frustr8

    Onderland

    And Friendsn I Am There also.!!!!!! 199,4 pounds about a half-hour ago!
  10. Frustr8

    Woo hoo! Onderland!

    And I also , my peeps, just hit Onderland! 1:24 AM EDT June 15th 2019- 199.4 pounds- Thank you GOD-Thank you Bradley Needleman MD-the OHIO STATE UNIVERSITY HOSPITAL- WEXNER MEDICAL CENTER in Columbus Ohio- I am glad I stayed the course and made it to THIS POINT. This is the amount Valerie CNP and Dr Needleman's right hand woman( & by extension Dr Needleman) set as a goal for my Weight loss. I would like and plan to get down to my own goal of 175. I comprehend these last 25 pounds may be more pokey coming off, but I HAVE COME SO FAR- I CAN'T AND WON'T STOP NOW especially now that I can see it shining ahead, that's the REAL THING not glitter someone else dropped! PRAYERS SOLICTED AND GRATEFULLY ACCEPTED!💦 I did it, I really did it!
  11. Frustr8

    BUMMER! Disappointed & Sad

    And it may be more glorious for the delay, still will be praying🙏it smooths, you get reapproved and you'll be Soon with us " in the groove". And ❤caths, while not the most enjoyable way to spend a day. I have had 2 caths, mutiple ultrasounds, been punched, prodded and found out in February 2019 I have an thoracic aorta aneurysm. Luckily not enlarging or needing surgery but quite a scary thought. Well, there is anything else I can do to make you feel Better now?🌸🌼🌺😳👍😛
  12. Frustr8

    Underwear?

    Can you imagine what shape you would be in if you DID require underwire for your rump area? Rather boggles the mind doesn't it!
  13. Frustr8

    Feeling "weepy" & sad

    Yes there is no shame asking for help if you need it. The surgery can upset your emotions, make you doubt the wisdom of your surgery and even worse, make you doubt yourself. Try to find someone who knowns, understands and is willing to work with bariatric patients, we are not always the easier traditional clients but equally worthy of help. And remember, although we are your peers and not professionals, we do care, we will help if we can!
  14. Frustr8

    Better tasting [to me] water flavoring

    And I like Nestle Splash , good flavit, no calories. We usually have Acai Grape around the house, I can even drink it warm. and usually I demand liquids chilled.
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    Pre surgery fears

    So true, your Head Hunger writes checks Your Body can't or shouldn't cash!
  16. Frustr8

    Weight-loss funnies

    DIET Breakfast 250 calories Lunch 375 calories Snack 125 calories Dinner70,450 calories (OOPS!)
  17. Frustr8

    Quotes & Inspiration

    It always. is better to arrive late than to arrive ugly. And since life is so short, always wear cute shoes!
  18. Frustr8

    Bariatric Emergency Kit

    I have Orchids and Dragons on text-dial in mine, she has helped me down off a few dietary ledges and I value her consul.
  19. Frustr8

    Full liquids!

    And, although unlikely, you could turn out intolerant to either of these. Start with cheap, before you opt for the more expensive milks, okay?
  20. Frustr8

    Pre Surgery Jitters

    All minor,but that said, we all have a thing or 2 that does bother you! I thought they might laugh at me being so old, I missed my cats because my son basically "roomed in" with me, but my biggest? That my surgeon would change his mind at the last minute and WOULD NOT perform my surgery. And to me that was a date 10 times worse than death. And no, I never feared dying on the table, which at 72 I easily could have. I knew my surgeon would not let THAT happen, it would ruin his Perfect Record as well as screw up my life as well as my son's. And he also believed implictedly in Dr Needleman, so much that he is considering Bariatric Surgery for himself!
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    Trying to deal with gas attacks . . .

    Yep, been there, did. that but usually try to time it when small chiid nearby, let them be blamed for toxic odors! LOL😛👍
  22. Thank You So Much Fluffy Chick this might explain why I had 2 babies post 30 after trying to add to my family for so many years! Such a gap that one of my obstetricians asked, if by chance was This Baby's Father my Second Husband? Nope they all had the same Daddy!
  23. Frustr8

    VEG Support

    👍OKAY👍
  24. Frustr8

    protein shake

    Yeah , not bad at all , have used the Vanilla Bean myself. The best tasting of the Vanilla ones, like you say A very clean Formulation. Phage grown tired of Vanilla anything, have been,allergic/ intolerant of chocolate's whole family for 44 years, including cocoa butter. So I usually do protein enriched smoothies and it seems to work for ME.
  25. And I am proud if and for you all, especially Mike and Carrot64, I too tried telling people how much more I needed to lose, guess I have never been good at saying Thank You and not belaboring the point. Either I am I ungrateful or I just have not had that many compliments in my life. When you are a fat baby, 36 pounds , 35 inches tall at one year, the size of an average American 2 and half year old, it is rough. Remember in the past the BORN TO BE WILD t-shirts? Someone should have issued me one BORN TO BE FAT, it was only the truth! And it has been difficult, notice I don't say impossible, only difficult, to lose 120+ pounds in 9 months but I am on my way and will remain on my way until my surgeons, other doctors and especially ME are satisfied, then I can go into Maintainance and like the motto I have adopted THE REST OF MY LIFE WILL BE THE BEST OF MY LIFE! JOY cometh slowly but JOy shall still come!

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