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Frustr8

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  1. Frustr8

    For those eating under 1000 calories

    Me too, plus I seldom can keep pureed meats et all down, good news, Precious has finally allowed me to keep down Greek Yogurt,CAN cottage cheese be far behind? But a minimum of 2 protein shakes if not 3 to keep my protein levels close to appropriate. Nobody has checked my blood lavs, haven't had a complete since March, my l8cal hospital, even with the incidentals they've taken when I was there for other things, refuses to do a Fe(iron) level, won't do it on my request, I'm only a patient so at a low contemptible level of life. Maybe say" Please Please Please" at Tomkittens appointment on Thursday. Since I had to have an Iron INFUSION OVER 3 MONTHS AGO somebody better be checking into this! Maybe I should have asked Santa Claus for a complete Pathology lab for Christmas 2018 ! Felt sorry for the Fat Dude so cut him so slack I case he was in the midst of Weight Loss himself. Must grease his body to get down all those furnance and woodstove piping!
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    June 2019 Surgery Siblings!

    You could have a small amount of blood pist- surgery but it should be well- digested down towards black and tarry, if it is bright flaming red, a cause for concern, bring your bariatric team back into the loop. For at least 6 weeks, you are legally Their Baby! Let them know, please? You are important, you do matter, I'm a grandma twice over, if you were mine I WOULD WORRY- shoot I would frog- March you into the office and Great- Grandma Frustr8 would get some action, even if you sat silent. I fight for and protect My Own and I done adopted YOU!
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    June 2019 Surgery Siblings!

    Nor did I, my surgeon only made me promise to void just before I was transported to the OR, I kept my promise and he kept his! Didn't have bladder spasms or lower pelvic pain like I did after knee replacements, even with them removing the Foley cath the same calender day. Its a tender area to have tubing introduced intom, even for us Females. MALE Bari-pals I do know and honor the pain you must go through with much longer a plumbing route!
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    June 2019 challenge

    W*H*A*T? No wonder you said in another thread you have resumed smoking! Won't say you have exchanged one coping mechanism for another, you know that already, but I would revert if I had smoked in the 1st place. I Do Understand!
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    Smoking Post-Op

    Can it be worse than jumping in your car searching for a gas station or 24-hour supermarket just to replenish your cigarette supply? You Already are becoming anxiety- ridden with this problem, maybe there will be some SSRI juggling needed, but you have come through and conquered so much already , don't let Nancy-Jo Nicotine enslave you too! Be brave like the Cat half, not meek like a Mouse!
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    Tabata

    Yee-ouch, burp, upchuck, two I can see why, at least with my crabby self- centered Precious Pouch, she still rules ME instead of me ruling her, maybe it will always be that way!
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    Seafood

    Okay,another entry into my Bucket List. See Fluffy Chix, there is much more left after giving up or limiting the Bad Food Dudes. Thanks for answering and the thought does brighten up my day!
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    Bariatric surgery was a big mistake

    Sniff ๐Ÿ’ฆyou are very correct, both my parent and parents-in-law are now gone, while I wasn't looking I BECAME the older generation, and when things and Occurances happen in my life or the few remaining family I have, I wish I could share it with them! Ah, if there is a Heaven , as I was taught from childhood, maybe on some level they still do know. But it is not a happy time when only YOU are left to celebrate!๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ช๐Ÿ˜ฅ
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    Seafood

    Google says Souteastern Asia shark- catfish, also known as iridescent shark . Maybe someone can tell us what they taste like. I'm still trying to get up courage to try lobster or its more genetic make-up Monkfish. I have had either since surgery, but I had both before.
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    Plateau for last 4+ years

    Too true, too true, but we will do with what tools we have. I just felt bad you weren't given credit for all you have done already. Rather like " If you still think I'm too large, you should have seen where I came from!" GSVguy, I look at my pre surgery pictures,I cry because I didn't realize the size of me I was presenting to the world๐ŸŒŽ! And I thought I was looking good, really I did. But out of that train wreck I built and am still building a NEW ME! I am still legally obese at 31.1, almost ready to drop into Overweight, but I started at 52, that is Abundantly Morbid Obesity, probably within death in a couple years if a โคattack , stroke or cancer didn't carry me off first! That is a very Scary Larry circumstance, Bariatric Surgery was my best hope and almost my last hope, so even on my discouraged days , I might bad-mouth myself but not my surgery! It gave me back hope, I just got to stay the course until I can take a VICTORY Lap. If you have read my past postings you'll notice I haven't always had sunshine , flowers and bluebird singing in the trees. But I will still prevail, I HAVE COME TOO FAR TO JUST COME THIS FAR! I am not a quitter, I am Red-headed, stubborn, and I'm gonna hang around till the finish. If I die in process, so be it, but I WILL HAVE TRIED. And the Gold Ring may still be mine!
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    High BMI

    Still a little bigger than you, but I can still can travel along, humming my song, because even with my faulty innards I AM SO MUCH BETTER than once I was! And I still am going to work my way to VICTORY, because I have commited to it!
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    Bariatric surgery was a big mistake

    But Sheribear I agree, the trade- off was worth it, and this is from someone who was a proficent bread maker. I have accepted it, shoot I even miss my Late Husband at times, but he won't be coming back either. And if his return meant he would be in perpetual pain, I could not be that cruel, even though at times I was tempted to sit him at curbside with a placard saying" Free for the Hauling " at nightfall I would have bring him back inside with a severe case of Sunburn. And in my experience NOTHING complains of pain more than a man, Once mine said when in the midst of an diarrhea attack, " You don't know what this pain is like!" Hey Bozo, you gave me 3 9 pound babies which I pushed out without surgical intervention! Let's just discuss pain levels, okay?" Turned on my heel and left the room before I could say worse. Mama wanted me to be a Lady after all, didn't she?
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    Plateau for last 4+ years

    And did you help him up off the floor once you Decked Him? Another weight- deprecator, can't swing a dustcloth without hitting one. I want to tell them Walk in MY shoes and also When you become Perfect we may speak again!
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    Itchy

    I have adhesive sensitivities also nut it could be also a reaction to your anesthesia or other peri- operative medications. Takes awhile for all that to work out of your system. Oh, at the time, I concede we do need them but there has never been a drug brewed without some side effects. As the old carnival barker said " You pays your money, you takes your chanceรท" most drugs can be okay but there always seems to be one which doesn't want to depart without leaving a " calling card". But I'm sorry you're in misery, try some hydro cortisone cream or even Benadryl cream. Ask your medical people if a short course of oral antihistamine might be useful. And from someone who has spent a good portion of her life BUMPY it does get better with time! Honest and truly!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ˜›
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    Grilled cheese alternative?

    Could you use Cloud Bread with your cheese? I saw recipes for that on YouTube, sounds easy to make.
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    Tabata

    Looked it up on Dr Google, hmmm does sound very interesting in theory. If you can survive the intensity it sounds of great success! Yeah, I'll be lurking too to hear experts describe it for them.
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    Chronic pain and exercise

    Well it's 10 AM and I am UP! Feel about as energetic and motivated as Wallace Wallaby, dontcha just ๐Ÿ’•the name, sounds like a cartoon character, doesn't it? Take my morning pills- all 9 of them- a minor miracle I don't rattle when I walk! Then on to preparing my morning strawberry protein shake, I really like the taste of ON q00% whey, got little packets my local Wal-Mart was clearancing out at a reduced price, I wonder if they are still accessible at Wal-Mart.com? Oh I love to haunt the clearance aisle, but occasionally my โคofโคs gets broken when I find something I like that there is NO More of. Sip Sip Sip, when I need to stop I'll pull on some gloves and rub linament into both knees. Gosh I hope out there is a Man who finds ligaments and such serductive, I could use an occasional Dinner Partner! LOL๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜
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    March Bypass Buddies

    Congratulations on breaking That Weight Barrier! Oh there are many more ahead but see, You Are A Success already- You Can Do This- because You Already have passed this goal, kicked it out of your way- not going to slow down or block you on your journey. Way to go, Baby, Way to go.
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    Bariatric surgery was a big mistake

    Remember Mikeyy, our complaints are only the tip of the iceberg, what lies beneath the water may still be Good Things, we just complain about things we think aren't the ordinary occurrences. We don't think surgery is a terrible thing as much as we have an innate urge to WHINE! And when your surgery day arrives, we will be still watching and Wish I g you a GOOD JOURNEY!
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    Chronic pain and exercise

    Well I must have tried to sleep on my left side too much last night, now the inner surface of my right knee is hurting like an absessed tooth. I could have avoided this had I put a pillow between them. Let's see if I can walk without limping badly, still lazing in my bed. Up and at em, Atom Ant! Gosh, sometimes I quote old defunct cartoons, watched them too much as a kid, now I watch reruns with my grandbabies. I have one, 21 years old, who is a closet Spongebob Square Pants fan. Do you never outgrow your need for cartoon levity?
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    Just sleeved 6-17-19!!

    A banana is a banana, be it tall or small, it depends how you use it, after all! There you go, a little spontaneous poetry for 24th of June. I must go over to June 2019 Challenge and see what the actual motivation is for today. Many,have been just what I needed on Each Day!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜
  22. And that is an extremely valid point, you don't have to bring total body breakdown, just desire and commitment to do better and to use your surgical tool to its best advantage.
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    Let's Get Motivated!

    Thanks darling, I think You're pretty cool yourself!
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    Venting my depression

    Would Tai Chi help? Seems like the slow, yet smooth and controlled moves might also help.bI am considering it myself, better than Yoga with my degrees of stiffness. Down Dog would quickly turn into Beached ๐Ÿณ Whale. And I might take 3 men and a dog to change my position let alone stand me on my feet again! Ah, but we all have our own degrees of flexibility we brought to the mix.๐Ÿ˜ž
  25. Reminded me more than a tad of Dr Now of 600 pound weight loss fame. Being downright abusive and nasty is his Stock In Trade. We would never have a successful relationsjip, you know!

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