Hi Ladies....
At first I wasn't going to tell anyone but my mom and dad....I didn't even tell my boyfriend until after the surgery! But, then I told my best friend (who is a size 4!...even after a baby) and she is so supportive. My boyfriend was more upset that I didn't confide in him from the start than he was about the surgery. He has been very supportive and he is my walking buddy. I haven't told a lot of people, but I don't feel like I should be ashamed of this. I did this to make my life better...so that I can be healthier. I know there are some people that I couldn't tell...but I don't really consider those people my close friends...I wouldn't tell them a lot of stuff. My point is, this is a long journey...and you are going to need some support along the way. If there is anyone that you can trust, I would encourage you to tell them, so that you at least have one person to lean on. I've been blessed with a lot of support and I know that I wouldn't be able to do this alone.
As for some random receptionist or nurses opinion...who cares....like the song says.."Hi Hater....I see you..Bye, Hater!"