Jen17

This is great advice, I’m getting my paperwork together to get financial aid, I only left with some clothes and toiletries, I don’t have anything else.

You're not crazy. You the best you could to make a good decision then. It did not turn out the way you thought it would, but you can learn from it and now move forward. If you live in your mistake, then you can not move forward, you will stay depressed. Take it one day at a time and find at least two things you did well everyday and Celebrate that success. Repeat that everyday and never stop. We are so good at putting ourselves down, but we are horrible at lifting ourselves up. You have purpose and you are worth it.

I wish I had a miracle to give you. But I don't. Just realize you can make everything better but it takes strength!! One day at a time or even one step at a time. NEVER let anyone take your worth away!! I'm sure you will get thru this!! I can listen to you at any time. Take it easy and remember you are not alone.

Thanks for your advice, it was so stupid of me to think I could have the operations, pack, move and start a new job, I feel like I’m crazy which is so negative and wrong so I’m going to try to busy myself and think positive!

I wish I had some life changing advice for you ♡ What youre going through sounds very difficult and isolating. I think any massive change has the potential to be catastrophic for people. The surgery affects hormones massively, this is something my surgeon talked to me at length about. Also, if you're on hormonal birth control that may be in play as well. Give yourself a moment to think about your worth- you are worthy, which is why you had the surgery in the first place! You're dealing with a whole lot and can't go back in time and change a thing. Take a deep breath and think about what you can do in this moment to help yourself. One thing at a time. Best wishes ♡

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Hi everyone,
I just wanted to know if anyone had their world turned upside down after surgery? Granted what I did was stupid and could really see the writing on the wall that I was going to end up having a nervous breakdown which I am now trying to get through.
I had surgery in May and had a month at home in QLD but wanted to move closer to my father and stupidly thought I could pack, move and start a new job while trying to manage full time work, 5 animals and a large yard, the landlady was texting and going around my house hen wasn’t home, took the keys to the ride and told me I had 2 weeks to get out once I told her how uncomfortable her sticking her nose in was making me.... so I couldn’t keep food down, would often hurl at work and took days off, the landlady had me so distressed I tried to overdose and ended up in hospital, since then the following has happened:
I lost my job due to my personal problems
I have nowhere to live, I’m staying I’m staying at friends and my animals are in an emergency shelter
My father disowned me, told me to get off his property, this one has me baffled because I’ve never been suicidal but I thought my dad would want to help me, he hates me so now I have no family support.
I have no money so I’ll lose the house I worked hard for
I have never had panic attacks or anxiety like this, I’m dizzy, legs are wobbly, shaking all the time, blurry vision
Can’t eat, I mean I look at food and feel sick, drinking Water though so at least that’s something.
My dog needs 10k surgery, my animals are all I have in life
I’m seeing a psychologist who said I shouldn’t have had the surgery which is why I just bored you with everything above! I need to be accountable for my actions but I’m wondering if the surgery has made me crazy? I was a manager and now, in the pits of despair, I’m thinking I will never cope with life again.
I’m sorry if this is offensive to anyone and I hope I can find people here who may have had similar experiences and can assure me life will get better?