YummyMummy303

NO JUDGEMENT! So I was really naughty NYE and today - New Years Day here in Oz. I ate heaps, and drank wine. I even ate mini chocolates. I really fell off the wagon and only about a month post-op. Has anyone else had bad days like this? Did it stop you from reaching your goals? I am going to a cycle class tomorrow because I feel ready, but today I just want to treat myself. Is the occasional slip up really going to ruin everything? Thanks in advance xx Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Ahh don’t ask - either people are understanding that we’re all going through a lot, or they’re just here to act perfect and slam anyone that’s honest about their struggles. It’s so interesting what you and timar are saying is on plan. Nothing you’ve listed is really bad for you. I mostly eat healthy, but surgery has helped me a lot with hunger most the time, and what I chose, but also quantity. I can’t even eat a small can of tuna for dinner right now. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thanks Timarland - both your comments are on point! Really well said! Xx Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thanks Jess, and thank you for clarifying. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

So now every single post I write on here all of you are going to come on and continue to slam me over a post I wrote at 2 weeks post op about being honest about having a bite of pizza??? Do you not think there’s anything wrong with that? If my post is unrelated why are you all still bringing it up to start a fight? It was weeks ago and I’ve lost 20lbs since op. Stop trying to drag me down and everyone on here being honest. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

You are a hypocrite - you wrote a post on how hungry you were not long ago because you too prepare meals for the family - so it’s ok to bash someone over a bite of pizza 3 weeks ago? Get lost, you’re all such assholes that have completely overreacted for the sake of being jerks. You need to look in the mirrors. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Oops meant: and unrelated* Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thank you so much for your post. Most mothers do understand what it’s like, so thank you for your considerate and honest response. All the best to you too. I think there are many on here that want to make you fail. Did a bite of pizza kill me? No. Did it stop me losing weight? No. It hasn’t really stopped people on here getting obsessed over it even though this post is 3 weeks later an unreleased. Sheesh. Unbelievable. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

LMAO! Ok... yeh it’s those stupid newbies... right. Bye then! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

And this post is a perfect example that it’s actually snide and condescending comments like this from vets that show you actually don’t want people to succeed. It’s like you want to make them feel bad so they fair. Who’s fooled. I think it’s sad to be on here acting the way so many vets do 4 years post op, like they’re life revolves around the surgery instead of food now. I adore the ones that come on to share posts and updates, but the ones that basically live on here - that’s just really sad. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

In four years I’ll be enjoying my body and life and won’t be on here scolding people new to the surgery. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Guess what Kate? You’ve just proved my point! 1) it was a bite 2) this post wasn’t about that 3) it did not cause damage You and others on here are bullying people for being honest. I am 5 weeks post op now, and I am disgusted at the way some of you behave. If anything could have done damage to me it was the way you all treated me when I created that post at 2 weeks. Why are you posting on my thread besides wanting to argue and be rude? Did you go through everything you did just so you could come on here and slam people early in their own journey or did you do it for you? What do you want? Do you want me to say how amazing you are, that you’re so much better than everyone else on here? You’re not, and we will reach our goals too despite people like you trying to drag us when we slip up. For God sake, do you have a life out of here? I’m proud of losing 20lbs in a month, considering I only have another 40lbs to get to my goal - so keep your negative judgment to yourself. You have clearly come on here to keep criticising me about admitting I ate a bite of my kids pizza at 2 weeks, which is now 3 weeks ago and nothing to do with this post - so don’t you DARE come on here acting like anything you are posting is anything but a bullying attempt! All of the vets like you should just leave people alone - you are NOT surgeons, you are NOT nutritionists, and you are NOT better than anyone else! We all have our own journeys! We all got here our own ways. I put on weight during my second baby, other people it was a lifelong battle - but one thing is for sure - we don’t need being scolded by know-it-all vets so early in this life changing surgery! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Kate - thanks for yet another smart ass vet response. We are not the ones that are know-it-alls, we are at the start of the journey and looking for others experiencing similar challenges and blocks. Perhaps some of you have forgotten what it’s like at this stage, or you’re hungry for more awards on here, whatever it is: coming on and shaming people doesn’t help anyone. I am clearly not the only person on here that has had bad days and going through it, but you’ve singled me out. What’s the point? Congratulations to all the vets, you should be proud of your weight loss, but if you want to come on here and act like it was always easy, and you’re so much better than anyone else, than maybe you’re looking for something on this forum that we can’t give you. We clearly need support more than any of you do at our stages, and it’s not what many of you give on here, so why bother just to make us feel bad about posting? Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Sorry if you didn’t understand my post - but I wasn’t asking for your pant size - I’m not sure if you want an award. This was about people that have slipped up at times, how they dealt with it and kept going - which you have done also, but I guess it’s ok when you do it, just not anyone else. I was 4 weeks and nothing I ate was not allowed for safety reasons, it just wasn’t as healthy as I should be eating. Everyone has weak moments, there are hundreds of posts just like it, only as soon as I post anything it draws all of the vets to come on and start scolding me. Don’t bother if it’s not going to be constructive. There are plenty of people that came on, understood the post and offered constructive responses, but again I have to close this thread because of the few that take it as an opportunity to come on and act as though they are perfect and everyone else should be - which is completely unhelpful! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thanks Mama - that’s what I was looking for to know I’m not alone with bad days. My portion has improved a lot and 20lbs down at 5 weeks post-op, but I think it’s important to be honest that it hasn’t always been easy, and I have slipped up because not everyone on here is as perfect as some like to claim they are. Let’s stay on track, the holidays are a really hard time for many people, so thank you for being honest about your journey! Xx Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

In other words: we got off topic guys - let’s go back to abusing the OP when I haven’t listened to a word she or anyone else had said. GTFO Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

You look incredible! You even look younger! Check out your booty, you are lucky you have good shape. I’m so scared I’ll lose my booty, I don’t want a flat or saggy butt Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Don’t let anyone scare you - our bodies are different and strange. New Years Days I spoilt myself and ordered an omelette, and I ate much more of it than I thought I would be able to, and my body loved every bite like it needed the nutrients. Most days I can’t even fit in 3 spoonfuls of food. I don’t know why my body could fit in more omelette, but I don’t regret it at all, it was delicious. I wouldn’t eat it everyday while I’m trying to lose weight, but I also trust my body, listen to it, and I’m not going to completely deprive it either. I hope you enjoyed your fish. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Do not worry, my SW was near yours and I only lost 8lbs the first 2 weeks post-op. I’m 5 weeks post op now and 20lbs down, clothes are getting baggy. As you start getting more active, you’ll notice it coming off more. I’ve just started at the gym again, and I feel great and energy is great. Keep going and don’t compare yourself to others. We will get there and I’m a slow loser too. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Today I went to put on a bra that was tight when I went in for surgery, and it was too big to put on! I’m a month post-op and I needed that boost so much! All my back fat is going. I look in the mirror and I’m still feeling really far from my goal, but trying on the bra and seeing that huge difference was the boost I needed to know I’m definitely on track. I just wish a stranger would notice soon and say something. Keep at it, the scale doesn’t always reflect how much your losing. I still feel swollen in my stomach - is that possible 5 weeks post-op? Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Now this is real! It’s normal - at least it was for me! Those first few weeks were killer for me, and as many on here know and absolutely attacked me for sharing, I broke and had a bite of my kids pizza. It didn’t kill me, but it made me scared, even though I chewed it well up and was soft. Still, I admit I screwed up, didn’t deserve some of the aggressive bullying from some ppl for my honesty - but if something came out of it I can at least tell you the your cravings are normal. It’s a really hard journey and life changing procedure. It will not change lifelong habits and thinking over night. Slipping up a few times, or just eating that one bite to many teaches you sometimes though, and you feel so bad you never want to do it again. The me 5 weeks post-op is not struggling the way I was at 2 weeks. Tho, I will struggle next week as we’re going to an all-inclusive resort. - Wish me luck! You’ll get through it!

I start sneezing when I’m full - it’s the strangest thing ever! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

That’s pretty much my surgeon who said you will lose weight no matter what you eat, but try to make good choices because you’re not getting much in. I am trying to make the best choices, but I still get cravings and it’s good to know it isn’t just me and how others get through it. I hope your nausea gets better, that really sucks Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

100% this! In my post bout pizza I also shared a friend was just diagnosed with cancer and not one person showed compassion or understanding - and then want to say they are supportive? What fools. And it was a bite- they act like I ate a whole pizza. Anyway, this was a new post but their abuse continued. I bet they’ll fall harder than I will because at least I can be honest about my weakness. I had ppl DMing me saying they did the same but too afraid to share on here - so the bullying isn’t helping anyone. Surgery may make u thinner but some of you have very ugly personalities. Anyway - much love to you Creekimp - girl I hope you’re kicking butt! I’m 20lbs down and 5 weeks today!!! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

That wasn’t what I wrote at all! Good luck with your surgery, karma can be a b***h when you go through week moments. I have a feeling you’ve had a lot more of them than I have to get so big, and when you realise you can still eat and get hungry, you may struggle too. I was only 55kgs before I had my daughter and ran marathons - and I know I am getting back there. I’ve already lost 20lbs! I’m glad I could be honest on here and again thank the ones that didn’t use it as an excuse to bully and act like clowns. Truly - so astonishing all of the morbidly obese people now tryna act like they’ve never made bad food choices! What a laugh!!!! Just give it up - you’re reaching! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs