i think i am in the same stage as you- i have chosen my surgeon and have finished all my pre op with the execption of my nutrition consult. i am 40 and i too am sick of the gain then lose then gain cycle. my mom is not thrilled by the idea of the surgery and i am 40 . i am not sure when my surgery is going to be scheduled but i am hoping for june or july and to get started on my new path- good luck to you and let me know when you get your date- robin in ellington ct