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Maybe you get more cinched with the loss of every inch. S**t ladies, we got a new motto!

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I am so glad someone posted about this now. I had sex recently and I know I have had bigger but holy wow I was tight! I am only 3 weeks out. I do not understand but I am not unhappy about it one bit!!

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Not feeling sexy can really ruin a woman's sex drive. I didn't stop "using it" because I wanted to keep my husband happy, but I didn't enjoy it as much as when I felt better about myself. My sex drive has been through the roof lately! It's probably a combination of the increased energy level, the fact that even though I'm not at my ideal weight (and will definitely still need plastic surgery) I don't hate my body anymore and then this special surprise of youthful pleasure. Whatever the reason I'll take it!!

Everything gets smaller, including the diameter. I haven't really heard anyone else talk about it so I'm not sure if this is a common thing but I feel like a teenager again, lol!

Not feeling sexy can really ruin a woman's sex drive. I didn't stop "using it" because I wanted to keep my husband happy, but I didn't enjoy it as much as when I felt better about myself. My sex drive has been through the roof lately! It's probably a combination of the increased energy level, the fact that even though I'm not at my ideal weight (and will definitely still need plastic surgery) I don't hate my body anymore and then this special surprise of youthful pleasure. Whatever the reason I'll take it!!

Not feeling sexy can really ruin a woman's sex drive. I didn't stop "using it" because I wanted to keep my husband happy, but I didn't enjoy it as much as when I felt better about myself. My sex drive has been through the roof lately! It's probably a combination of the increased energy level, the fact that even though I'm not at my ideal weight (and will definitely still need plastic surgery) I don't hate my body anymore and then this special surprise of youthful pleasure. Whatever the reason I'll take it!!

Maybe didn’t stop working but the crazy hormones will do a number on drive, so in a way it does stop.

Yeah but sometimes you needed a miners lamp to find it. Wondered if it would better to tattoo an arrow in my inner thigh or leave a trial of breadcrumbs. After all, you do remember what one of the nicknames is.?

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A few more visible inches AND it works the way it's supposed to!
But hey, look on the bright side: Yours didn't quit working when you were overweight!

And dang it, the guys gain a few more visible inches. Most of the bari-brothers are THRILLED about that!

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yeah, you loose your front meat, my camel toe is really non existent.

@Charity G well they can do Lipo on the mons when they do the tummy tuck/LBL surgery. I plan on getting a separate vag rejuvenation from a surgeon that specializes in that - I have a herniated muscle on the posterior wall from some rough childbirth.... sometimes makes good ole missionary a little uncomfortable.
Sex is still great but my booty is now a flat textbook down the pants!!! Goes with the 'tennis balls in tube socks' titties!!! All going under the knife after stabilized goal weight - hopefully a year from now.

I'm wondering if when someone has a panniculectomy does it also tighten up or get rid of the excess skin over the pubic bone? I'm thinking it would look weird to have a flat area where your pannus had been, only to then have a pooching FUPA.

For me it feels different kinda like the first time all over again 😊

I'm afraid if the wind blew up my skirt there would be a flapping sound from the nether areas loose skin. Ka-slap ka-'slap.

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And I've been widowed 5 1/2 years, I hope it isn't like all the guys told me " If you don't use it You lose it" want something in reserve in case Mr Wonderful comes along. Don't want Mr Barely Breathing, Mr What did you say, Honey? or Mr Just turn the electric blanket,on to medium. Want one that can generate his own heat.

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Oh dear sweet baby jesus I've loved reading this thread! Most especially @abefroman329 the sausage king's input!
I am SO immature! ROFLMAO!

Everything gets smaller, including the diameter. I haven't really heard anyone else talk about it so I'm not sure if this is a common thing but I feel like a teenager again, lol!

I was wondering about that too. It definitely feels different and it's almost painful like when I was younger. After having 3 kids I'm in not complaining, lol, but it is a little strange.

I assumed the same thing, so I've been pleasantly surprised. I had figured EVERYTHING got a little droopy after rapid weight-loss and was expecting the worst. It's crazy re-learning your body after so many years a certain way, but exciting at the same time!

Everything gets smaller, including the diameter. I haven't really heard anyone else talk about it so I'm not sure if this is a common thing but I feel like a teenager again, lol!

I assumed the same thing, so I've been pleasantly surprised. I had figured EVERYTHING got a little droopy after rapid weight-loss and was expecting the worst. It's crazy re-learning your body after so many years a certain way, but exciting at the same time!

I assumed the same thing, so I've been pleasantly surprised. I had figured EVERYTHING got a little droopy after rapid weight-loss and was expecting the worst. It's crazy re-learning your body after so many years a certain way, but exciting at the same time!

You've been here 5 minutes. How dare you imply I have no discipline; go back and read some stuff and get the sense of my journey. No, the surgery didn't do it all. It supported me. And while you are at it, think about why SO, SO many people never get to goal or immediately regain. (And look at some statistics while you are at it.)
You are entitled to your opinion, but if you think that the surgery alone gets you where you need to go, we'll see where you are in a year or so.
And, by the way, I always, always acknowledge that I have had surgery. I also point out that I lost 100 pounds during my six month pre-op diet program, and lost the rest after the surgery. Read the COUNTLESS threads about people keeping it a secret where I have said that.
Please block me. I will do the same. I will have no further interaction with you.