QueenTiff

Thank you so much I really needed to hear this! God bless you Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

So I’m just curious for anyone who knows people who had surgery as well, do they compare you to them. I’m about 8 months out and a couple pounds from 100 down but my friends who are only a couple months compare themselves to me and it really makes me mad. I have goals just like them, I struggle just like them and I’m wishing I lost a certain weight too. I really try to be a guide to the process but it’s starting to upset me. What should I do? Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

So I got sleeved in August and it’s almost 7 months since surgery and I still have not reach my 100 pound down goal and it’s really eating my soul. I know that sometimes it’s my own fault you know from eating the wrong things but other times I just don’t know what to do. I gained two pounds from having to much fun and now I’m trying to go back down again. It’s frustrating when your afraid your gonna fail. Any encouragement? Advice I been stress out for months? Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

Also i have a lot of “I️” these things it’s because my letter l is messed up. Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

So I️ know during this journey otherwise being healthy, getting the weight off is important. I️ also know it’s very important to not compare yourself to other people because it can get discouraging. My question is how do I stop being impatient. I’m a impatient person in general but reading these stories and seeing people results in 6 months honestly have me worried. I️ would love to be 100 pounds down in 6 months but I️ just feel like that’s not gonna happen. So how do I️ just stay focused and let my body do the work? Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

So I admit I had some bad choices lately and maybe this is why I’m feeling like I’m not losing weight but geeze it seems like I been at the same weight for a couple weeks now or more and it’s killing me. Even my sister loses weight and her eating habits are awful she has the lapband. Im just trying to figure out what I can do. Im back on track now and I workout more so idk maybe I’im Just impatient. Any suggestions? Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

Wait it is past one month I mean 2 sorry I'm sleepy lol Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

I'm having this same problem honestly like I want it to go fast but I keep forgetting I already lost 37 pounds so far and it's not even one month. so Idk im so eager to get to 200 pounds but that's more than 100 pounds. Keep pushing you got this I promise Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

Hey guys I'm back. So since last couple of weeks I been doing so much better. Thoughts have changed but now I'm struggling with a new problem. Weightloss. So I started my first water aerobic class and I felt great but even though it's only been a day I feel like my appetite has increased. It makes me a little worried. I really want to get out of the 300s and into the 200s but I have to lose this 15 pounds. I feel like I'm losing weight slow but someone said it's progress. Idk anyone has advice or something Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

And I'm just like you. I never met you in my life so to think someone is gonna cyber bully me into thinking that I'm dumb for the way I'm feeling they are absolutely out of their mind. People don't understand there is no difference between me on the internet and off. People get all scared when the other person speaks back and defend themselves. Sorry that was a little rant but I understand Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

Well I truly appreciate this thread. I agree I did kind of go off on people but at the time I was in sooo much pain I just wanted someone to say it's ok. I always tried be genuine and raw. My aunt and best friend is getting this surgery and I want to be the best example I can be. So again thank you so much and I have nothing but love and support for you. Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

I know exactly how you feel. I just want to be more positive and pray I can do better. I'm here for ya if you need someone to talk too Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

I try to be as honest and raw as I can. I am doing better than when I originally posted this but it's still a struggle. I would encourage you to get it and get through it. I wish I could hold your hand but I promise to be here for support Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

Thank you I needed to hear that! Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]

Most of my responses are very grateful and fortunate that people share their experience with me and people encourage me to still push forward. I am always ready to view people opinions of things but I'm also allowed to say how I feel, what I feel in response. It's America, it's only sour if that individual takes it sour. Thank you for your concern and thank you for sharing how you once had regret in your journey as well. I appreciate you sharing your experience. Tiffani[emoji1528][emoji757]️[emoji175]