I am 21. I have tried so many weight loss options and I know for me, and the people around me that if I told anyone,any weight loss I have from then on will be 'because of the surgery' and not because I worked my ass off for it. So I have chosen to tell my mom, dad, and sister and let that be it. I need this to be a positive experience, and I don't want anything or anybody making me feel negative about it