Hi Bev.
This is a TOOL. A wonderful tool. It's like you got your own little policeman down there, making sure that you stay good. Without it, (like all of us) no self control.
From going to weight watchers, you have gained all the knowledge, understanding, determination and now with the help of the Lap-Band System, YOU can finally (AND WILL) succeed.
In my life time, I have probably lost over 300lbs in weight, to only put it back on, and some.
I really can get up every morning and say to myself. "I will do good this day". And Actually do it.
My nurse once told me "At special occasion or holidays, you can eat a piece of cake or cookie or even chocolate, but not every day is a special occasion or holiday".
To me, the life of feeling good and knowing there is a light at the end of the tunnel, with the help of the Lap-Band is so much better than any sweets could be.
I lost my father when I was 11. He was only 54 and over weight, and died from a heart attack. I have two beautiful teenage daughters, and I'll be damn if I'm going to leave them.
Last but not least: I will go to Disney or where ever by next year, and go on rides with them and be able to walk the place without my feet killing me.