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I weighed in yesterday and I am 153.8. I have lost 31.2 pounds in 2 months (surgery was October 17). I am doing great and super, super happy!! My goal weight is 120 so just 33.8 pounds left to go!!!!

Toby - how are you doing?

Hello!!! I wanted to provide an update. HAVING THIS SURGERY WAS THE BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE!!!!! NO, ABSOLUTELY NO NO NO NO NO HUNGER - ever!!! I am FREE to live life and focus on things other than food!!! I am happy, not anxious anymore - I feel better, I look better, I am just a nicer person all around!! As of yesterday, I am 161 which is a 24 pound loss in 6 weeks. This means I have 41 more pounds to my ideal weight of 120. I cannot emphasize enough how AMAZING I FEEL!!!! I am a totally new person - completely in control and beyond happy. Update on my husband, he weighed 268 yesterday - which is a loss of 82 pounds since August 14!! He is still going strong and feeling and looking better. When we married I was 128 and my husband was 215 (this was 12 years ago). We are moving ever closer to seeing those numbers again. I would do this surgery a million times over -- all the pain and anger and frustration that I felt in the beginning has melted off - just like the fat! Toodles!

Very exciting!! It will be here before you know it!!

Hello!! I had surgery 15 days ago and all is good. The surgery was (thankfully) uneventful. I was released the next day and felt very little pain. I started driving 8 days after surgery and I haven't ever felt any pain. My starting weight was 185 and today I am 172, so 13 pounds in two weeks (which is 21% of the weight I need to lose). The hardest part was the two week protein liquid stage, after surgery. I have also struggled with drinking water too fast - which has caused immediate and temporary pain but no vomiting. I have zero hunger and fast food smells are no longer appealing. I had a bite of my son's McDonald's french fries and they tasted like nothing. I have pretty much zero cravings for food now - which is CRAZY. Not feeling psycho hungry is amazing and really relaxing. If you asked me 11 days ago, I would be regretting this decision because I was hating the liquid stage. But I am feeling better - it really does get better. I got my staples out today and my blood pressure and pulse was significantly better. So that is awesome! As also an update, my husband had surgery on August 14 and has gone from 348 to 285. He is still losing 5 pounds a week!!

Just an update - my husband's surgery on August 14 went AMAZING! He is down 58 pounds since then and feels great. He has zero regrets and hasn't thrown up or had any dumping whatsoever. I am so proud of him! My surgery is October 17.

I am jealous that my husband gets to do this first. Ok - jealous isn't the right word. I wish I could break my obsession with fast food and fat sooner than November. I wish I had more willpower. I feel so gross with the food I eat - like a huge whale. I want to be done with eating, eating, eating, eating and thinking about eating, eating, eating, eating. I don't want to crave or want to eat crap food anymore. I need this surgery tool to help me restructure my life. I wish mine was sooner!!!

Last night I took the time to review the paperwork the clinic had given my husband for the pre-op time period. He has to have clear liquids starting Saturday and Sunday as well as drink a whole huge bottle of liquid on Sunday with 6 antibiotics. I went through the liquids diet list and bought the items he can have during the first two weeks: Gatorade, flavored water drops, sugar free Popsicles, sugar free jello / pudding, broth, low fat cream soups. I don't really know how he will tolerate these items and I still need to pick up more protein shakes. My husband received his surgery time for Monday and we have to be at the hospital at 5:30AM for the operation at 7AM. I am going to have to work out how to drop our son off at day camp (with the help of my parents) and I plan on bringing my tablet to read during the wait. The surgery book indicated that it may take 8-9 hours before he will be in a room resting (includes prep, surgery, recoup). The surgery itself should take 3-4 hours. He seemed nervous and bit on edge yesterday, which I can fully understand. I, too, am super nervous / anxiety / worried / concerned / ready to move on. Here's to the next 3 days 18 hours 18 minutes!

My husband had his pre-op appointment this morning and it took nearly 2.5 hours. He met with a variety of nurses and the surgeon to discuss what needs to be done ahead of the surgery and post-surgery. He was short on details when I spoke with him after the appointment and I really wish I had attended with him but I had to drop off our son. He got a book that describes the preparation, which I am eager to read. I have to do some shopping and figure out what food / medication items to have in the house next week. He needs to get another blood test today and pick up some kind of preparation drink for Sunday. Other than that, no other dietary changes before the surgery. Which I think is odd since I have read a lot about pre-op liquid only diets / shrinking the liver and things like that. I am ready for the week to be over and wake up on Monday - ready to go. I know next week will be a difficult week for me too - I will have to keep my anxiety in check so I can be strong for my husband and fully take care of our son. We share the duties fully for the house and our son so picking up the slack will be something I will focus on. My husband is convinced that he will have zero issues and zero reason not to be working immediately out of recovery - I so, so, so much want this to be true. He is a tough man but I don't want him to ignore his body's signs for more rest. Part of me believes that if anyone can bounce back immediately it would be my husband. My anxiety would be reduced significantly if I see that he is doing fantastic and taking everything perfectly. Another part of me is cautious and unsure of what to expect. This surgery date was a welcome blessing because it made us commit to it quickly and we didn't have time hem and haw over the process. That being said, it feels like we are going to get like a Foster Child on Monday without any true preparation or clue with what to do with it. Which isn't true, really. We have studied the books, I have watched many YouTube videos, I have participated in forums -- but, just like a baby, you really can't fully experience it until it arrives. Here's to the next 4 days 23 hours 59 minutes!

Thank you so much for these tips! I will absolutely add these items to my list of preparation.

I spoke with my supervisor about my husband's surgery next week. I was hoping to wait on this discussion but seeing that I need to be out next week, it made sense to go ahead and let her know. I was super nervous about telling her but she didn't seem fazed by it at all. I am very new in this promotional position (not new to my University) but less than 4 months in this specific position and I am already asking for major time off - plus she knows about my own surgery (not the type, just that it is happening). I feel like a terrible employee / worker but sometimes life comes into play. I know it is just my anxiety causing me this stress but I am still fearful about appearing like a bad employee. My husband has a couple items to complete today: chest X-Ray and CPAP fitting. Tomorrow he has his final pre-op appointment to explains all the things to do ahead of the surgery on MONDAY. I wish I could just go to sleep and wake up on Tuesday of next week - with all of this stress and worry behind me But, hell, who am I kidding. I would immediately find something else to worry about. This is happening but time is mooooving soooooo slooooow.

And...here we go...THE SURGERY IS ON! August 14 is the beginning of my husband's post-fat life. I have so many emotions and worries. I have global concerns about how the surgery and recuperation will be. I have logistical concerns related to my work, his work, our son's schedule. I have specific concerns related to pain after surgery, possible hernia repairs, post-surgery 7 week diet, attitude changes / emotions related to weight loss. I am worried about him following the plan, allowing time to get better, not working immediately after the surgery. Above all - I feel a sense to excitement, ready-to-go adrenaline, just happy that this part is coming to a close. I am a huge combination of excitement and worry - all rolled into one stress case. In some ways, I feel like we are having a baby again. I know there will be pain, change and a complete unknown of how life will be afterwards. I will be completely unable to concentrate until next Monday and I just know that Sunday will be a ball of nerves all night (time to break out the benedryl!). One thing is for sure - my stress eating hit me HARD after my husband confirmed the surgery. I made a bee line for Panda Express and got sides to go with the chicken I am making for dinner. I came home and stuffed my face - I know that I will also have to change, come his surgery. I also know that my surgery will most likely be in November!!! Toodles!!

I am cautiously optimistic right now. My husband's nurse coordinator just called with news that someone had cancelled their surgery (apparently they are still smoking) and there is an opening on Monday. As in next Monday. Less than 1 week away. Monday. Monday. Monday. My husband immediately called me to let me know of the opportunity and we both said YES! He is calling the nurse to confirm that we are available for it on Monday...as in next Monday...less than 1 week away. The nurse said that he would have to do the chest X-Ray and the stool smears will have to come back negative before confirming surgery. He will do the pre-op appointment on Friday and then take some liquid cleanse over the weekend. I am cautiously optimistic because I want this for him so freaking much. The nurse indicated that the next available appointment wouldn't be until October -- so much for still scheduling for August and September. Right now I am praying, hoping, praying, hoping, praying that this will work out for us. Will update soon.

Well, it is Monday again. I have been updating about my husband quite a bit but not about my own journey. At the moment there isn't a whole lot to report - I am still dedicated to getting it done and my consultation is in 11 days (August 18). I am excited to get the consultation over and start getting my testing done with as well. I came up with another question for the doctor: 6. Will I get liquid citalopram after the surgery? I don't want to be without it. It relieves my anxiety so much - I am scare to be without it. 7. How are you supposed to take huge pills on just 1 once of water!?!? Today my husband plans to drop off his fecal smear test and get the chest X-Ray. I think we are getting closer.....