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I must just have bad luck. I'm 26 and black. And I flapped my arms up to show my mum that this is what I'll do when I've lost a loads of weight have have floppy wings... Low and behold some lose skins already flapping and my tummy's already saggy from a tiny loss of like 30lbs!!!

You here about people who are very slim and because they are very slim they are always finding it hard to retain heat and are freezing. Well . I am obese yet as the time goes on ( almost 3 months out) I am absolutely frozen cold, and its got worse the last 4 days, I mean I have my heating on high and everyones complaining its boiling hot so its just me feeling this cold. I am not sick or coming down with anything lol but just so uncomfertably cold lol what this about?!!

Hi, I am 4th july , I have no idea what it could be , though my tummy never feels great in the morning, even drinking water in the morning is uncomfortable. I hope someone offers you some help

Hi My advice to you , would be to book in with your Doctor for a blood test, I have two kids neither of them showed positive till I was pretty sure I was pregnant lol , I had a blood test with them both, its the only way to be sure right now, some people prefer to wait it out though , I am not one of those people so only you can answer that one, if you prefer to wait it out, but if you are trying start taking folic acid and prenatels now , this is what I did Relax , dont feel crazy it really sounds like this is something you never dreamed of happening so its understandable it seems unreal

Last week : 213 MID WEEK i was 210. today 208!!!!!!! i couldnt believe it i have asked everyone to use my scale and it confirmed there correct weight its hard to believe so i am not sure yet lol 5lbs in a week is unheard of for me

How long are we allowed to fast as a sleever?

Nothings wrong with you. Take a deep breath. Its normal for the scale to stop . mine did for 4 weeks. Its so discouraging. But it will move again. Try and up your water though it was 8 weeks till I could hit 2litres and it wasn't consistent. Keep at it.

Inspiring!! My sw similar to yours. Your inspiring! Did you ever imagine you'd be done in 6m?!

Not as often as I should. I'll keep on top of it!

If I'm honest. I'm not the best at taking vitamins. But I did do bloods at 9 weeks out and things were normal. Then again I wasn't cold then. I had a massive weight drop this morning also with this extra coldness. I also have not been getting as much cals the last week so this is all very interesting info. I dont think I've had my thyroid checked I don't know anything about thyroid lol. Thanks everyone I didn't even think something could be wrong. This week is the first week I've reached water goals everyday ha.

I'm 210 as of today so close to you !

I would delay solids till 6 months if you already have supply issues and trying to get back to exclusive breastfeeding. She is not likely to be interested if on solids. It seems better to get milk on track then solids not both at the same time. But that's just what I think you know what's best.

Hi have you got a baby wrap ? Or baby carrier. My Kids are 13 months apart I found this very helpful so I can feed on demand. If you want to get back to exclusive. When baby is having bottled milk during the day you need to pump so your body knows to produce the milk your baby is having. Look into pace feeding your baby will be used to recieving milk fast. One ounce wait then another ounce. But start swapping out feeds . warm showers and breast masage help stimulate milk supply dream feeds. Removing pacifier if you have one so baby can comfort nurse to help stimulate your supply. can I ask consider in breastfeeding mums need 500 extra calories for nutrients in milk and to keep up supply with not being able to eat much were they not worried you would dry up ? Not judging or concerned lol. Just curious

I have just seen your comment on the other post calling me a troll, I have never even seen you before. Neither have i had issues on any posts , so your clearly confused. I will not even bother to respond to you if i see you again. pathetic. Bye If i could block you i would but i will probably forget you on the next post.

Hey! thanks so much for asking sorry i just saw this, I did go to my usual doctor and had bloods and my b12 shot, but i didnt go so soon it seemed to rectify it self so did not have to tell anyone about it! i know not ideal but all is going well for the moment thank you for asking

Unfortunately..Eventually.. I have to take my self in to the hospital to check everythings okay as I know I would advice the same if it were me , but I hate hospitals, but will go on Monday. I am not feeling so good.. I through up quite aggressively yesterday evening .. Thought everything was fine, today I had a bite of food hurt my tummy made me feel sick, smelled my coffee i was about to be sick of the smell. last night i thought i tasted blood in my throat then I forgot about it , today its hard to explain my mouth is not bleeding but there is a weird blood wiff inside of my mouth that feels like its coming from not in my mouth. It is like my chest hurts but it doesnt its inside. like my throat and further down.. on the left but it is for sure inside, not a heartattack or anything. I woke up feeling so rotten and still feel rotten. I am abit sad and scared somethings wrong , and think maybe i should wait to see if its okay, no problems swollowing. i did my googling and nothing came up. I am scared.

You said what you can eat scares you, hence why i mentioned something as you sound concerned. Yes I am fully aware everyone is different, you did not say " I eat what a 9 month out person can eat, and I am fine about that" I am not judging you lol jeese i was trying to help lol. I dont always track either you said " I DONT KNOW HOW" So trying to help i told you how i was not telling you you should weigh your food .. wow lol

What is your eating plan. Quantities and amount of calories ?

I googled it for you. 55kg - 121lbs 127kg-279lbs

Wow that's amazing What is your meal plan like ? Maybe I should try that. I eat 4 ounce per meal.

You could be eating more than is on your plan to eat. You don't know how ? With a weighing scale? Were you not told to eat no more than set ounces per meal? Just because you can eat as much as a 9m out person doesn't mean you should lol

Yes, I considered your as soon as possible to mean... as soon as possible in relation to before a year seen as that was what the post was about. Everyone came along after you had explained a million things, and then your angry I took your post for the actual words used. It is not assuming actually taking the words you used into consideration lol. At the time you posted you were not aware of all the risk people have mentioned so its not farfetched that I thought you meant now Have a lovely day.

"in case some people assume I am trying to get knocked up as soon as possible" you literally said . 'asap'(as soon as possible) "i hope to start getting pregnant asap." "in your original post... it was not assumed. If that is no longer the case then good,but that is what you said.

Take a deep breath. We are on the same page. I did not want to be specific with those figures. But I agree with all that those risks are higher anyway. Under 12 month post vsg and 30+ imagine the risk? She said she wants to get pregnant asap which is the only thing I discouraged against. Not getting pregnant fulstop. Your out there stating facts just like I did. Proving no matter the medical history risks are risks across the board. I had my kids at 20 so you don't need to educate me on the risk of being an older mum . I took all that into consideration when I planned my pregnancies. I have no reason to not want others to experience the joy of a baby. But I also have seen the tears of early sleevers pregnancies going wrong. I said what I said because when your desperate for a child. Sometimes logic doesn't always seem clear. "I'll be fine because I know someone else who did it and they are okay "

How is everyone doing?