Your benefits manager has diarrhea of the mouth maybe they should have more will power and keep that to themselves. WLS is a tool not a solution you will still need to rely on yourself to get to your goals but everyone can use a little help. Remember your not doing this for them your doing it for you. Your mother inlaw should feel lucky u even included her. YOU CAN DO THIS! Your mother inlaw can be on French fry patrol after surgery lol Sent from my SM-G930T using BariatricPal mobile app