I decided I am telling my significant other, and a couple of close friends. There is so much negativity out there. I took phetermine in the past and lost a fair amount of weight. I think I got more negative feedback (even from my mother) than positive. It's not a huge secret, I am not ashamed or trying to hide it. I just want positive thoughts and support. I am realistic that somewhere down the line, I will get hurt by a negative comment, probably fueled by jealousy. I work in a small office and am really torn about telling my 4 co-workers.