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Thanks Kat. I think your idea of 3 months of dieting may help as well as meeting with the doctor (but not sure yet if he would attend with me) We have not had too much conversation as it ends quickly with his lack of support comments. I could also deal with trepidicious but unsupportive it tough. I do not want him to think that I am lazy or taking the easy way out. I wish I had a surefire way to have him see it my way.

Hi Carrie. I am glad to hear that I am not the only one, but I am sorry that you are going through the same thing. We are also the same age, so maybe that has something to do with it! I am impressed that you were strong enough to get this process started on your own; that is a great first step. What approaches have you used with your spouse? I am having some stomach issues so I am waiting for the results of some tests to come back before I get started. I looked up my insurance company's policy and judging from my BMI I should be OK with them.