My husband was completely honest with me on our first date. He was 2 years out but his diet was still restrictive. I guess I admired his immediate honesty. It wasn't a big deal to me, if anything i was proud of him. I would have kinda a annoyed of he would have later, all of a sudden came clean. On the other hand I'm a really private person and have a really hard time being open to coworkers, clients, and non immediate family members. Sent from my SM-G930V using BariatricPal mobile app