Hi there, First of all, I think your feelings are 100% on point. You have made a big decision and second guessing is normal. You need to ask yourself a couple of questions--why are you doing this? What are your alternatives if you don't? For me, I did this for better health and to be around long enough to see my grandchildren. How I will look once this is over is a concern, but personally I would rather have excess skin than diabetes, heart issues, mobility issues, etc. Also, I'm sorry you do not have much support. Keep coming to this forum and see if you can find a support group to attend in person. Having support from non-wls people is important, but so is being around people who have had it done and "get" you. Best of luck to you. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App