Hello, I'm 40 6'4" 425. I have lost 20 the first month! Trying to hit the weight the dr wants me to get too. I have not had my surgery yet. I'm doing this for lots of reasons. I have have a couple of questions for people. 1. Has anyone on here been told there losing to much weight too fast? 2. Anyone regret getting it done? 3. What's the biggest change to happen to you? 4. Anyone have huge personality changes? 5. Any truth to the roomer a guy gets a bigger man hood? I would like to get back into the dating seen but have not in years due to my size. Thanks for the help. Brent.