I went through the same thing with my husband. His main concern was the price because we had to pay for it. He felt the time was not right because of the economy. I told him we are promised today only and god decides the rest. I found support from family and friends. He even told he would not be for me on my surgery date. I prayed for him and his mindset. Guess what, he did not take to the hospital but he was there when I woke up. Good luck!