jamiebrookes

I am struggling to lose my last 9 pounds in order to get my surgery date and my husband is the most unsupportive person ever. He Snacks all the time, stops and gets food while we are out doing errands. Then he gets upset with me when I'm upset whit his habits. I don't know what to do. I know I want and need this surgery but he is making my road way harder. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I know I can't control his actions but it would be nice if he would be a little more sensitive to my situation right now. Home is supposed to be my safe place. I'm fine while I'm out and about. It's when we are home watching tv he Snacks constantly....I just wish he would be a little more considerate that's all. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I started my journey September 1st to have the gastric bypass done. I quit smoking, followed my diet, and for the months of November and December I was stuck at needing just 4 more pounds to receive my surgery date. I got so frustrated and depressed that I was stuck there, I pretty much sabotaged myself and I gained weight back. I am so depressed and discouraged. But mostly I am super disappointed in myself. I feel like a failure. This is so hard, I feel like I'm never going to get there. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Thank you for your reply. I've been having a rough time this month. I've pretty much sabotaged myself like I've said. I gained about half of what I lost back. I don't know why I did this. I'm 36 and have 6 year old twins. I want nothing more than to lose this so I'm better for them. I go for my weigh in on Thursday and I'm dreading it. I keep saying tomorrow I'm doing this and I start it off great. By the end of the day I've screwed myself. I don't know what to do. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App