Hey Mamato3,
You are great and you are doing great. People can be so insensitive. They need to STFU. Your mother-in-law sounds clueless and is coming from another era. I know how good it feels to have lost 25 lbs. so I can't imagine how great your feeling to have lost 50lbs. You go girl! Keep up the good work. Hold your head up and keep on keeping on! You deserve this victory, you've earned it.