Shirley Shirley Parr

I’m getting prepared to have a bypass. Had the sleeve on 10/17/16

It has to do with your stomach being cut, nothing you do to your mouth will really help. My surgeon said brush teeth and use mouthwash often. Just use it several times a day. That "fragrance" will improve after your insides heal--give it a few weeks. I'm 11 months out and still drink a protein shake every day. Breath is much improved from that stage.

Ten months out. In the hospital I was given a morphine drip--overnight stay. They sent me home with hydrocodone, and I took it for the entire two weeks after. I normally do not take narcotics, even for serious dental work Tylenol does the trick. However, I needed this pain killer. After the two weeks, I didn't have so much pain, but didn't feel well. At six weeks, I felt better than I had felt in YEARS!!!!!

Ten months out, and yes, I still get gurgling.

I am 10 months out. My surgeon said to take stool softeners EVERY day (I take two Colace), AND take Miralax as often as needed--even daily. For extra boost when really constipated, he said take Milk of Magnesia. I've had to do all those. The first week after surgery, I had a serious plug and (I know this sounds gross but many other people have done this too) I had to use a plastic glove and actually use my finger to unplug it. TOO much strain can cause hemorrhoids or fissures. After I was allowed to eat regular food, I began eating Fiber one cereal or oatmeal daily. That helps too. I have never had another plug like that one.

I'm so sorry you had this experience with your doctor!!! It's so important to be able to trust him! I had pain for two weeks and took the hydrocodone I was prescribed for the entire two weeks. I hate taking narcotic pain killers, but the pain was that bad. After that, the pain subsided, but I felt miserable. By about 6 weeks, I was in tip top shape, as far as feelings are concerned. He may be right about your pain not being unusual. But, if it continues to be unbearable, go see him again. Or if possible, could you ask for a different one? I don't know how the insurance would take care of that. Or maybe see your Primary Care and tell them all about the concerns you have. Just don't suffer unnecessarily!!!!

I did when I was at that stage. Walking is the best solution. Mine lasted for several days, maybe even a couple of weeks.

I suggest asking your surgeon. There could be some reason that can be fixed, for example changing some other medication you may be taking, or if you have a cpap, possibly check with the doctor you see for that.

I love yogurt so it wasn't a problem for me. But I was told to eat Oikos Triple Zero greek yogurt, no fat, no artificial sweeteners, no sugar. The Vanilla is very yummy. I felt like I was eating ice cream. You can also add a spoonful of PB2, which is powdered peanut butter without the fat. That pain you're feeling is most likely gas. Walking will help. Try not to take anything for it. I didn't take anything and was ok after walking. But ask your surgeon or nutritionist if you need help with it. I didn't have the gas pains after a few weeks.

You are recuperating from a major surgery! Your guts have been cut out. (sorry) It will take a little while to heal, and you'll feel better. I was required 70 protein at that time, but just did the best I could because it was hard. Just do your best and take time to heal. And contact your doctor if you continue this way. The esophagus hurting doesn't sound right to me.

Yes, me, too! I started water aerobics after my incisions healed.

Don't hesitate to take pain meds! Ask for something for the nausea. It'll get better.

Absolutely yes for sugar free popsicles and sugar free jello. My nutritionist didn't allow pudding and applesauce until the soft food stage, but I think I've seen others post that they could have it. Your nutritionist will give you a list of what is allowed, if they haven't already. I had my list way ahead of the surgery! Best wishes and prayers!

Info from my nutritionist said decaf coffee, or after 3 months one cup of caffeinated coffee per day. I drink decaf all the time because regular coffee cause me to have high blood pressure.

Don't worry--don't rush it. Go at your own pace. You'll hear this over and over again, "Everybody is different. Don't compare." You're fine!!

I have leg, feet and hip issues so walking is hard anyway. When I came home from the hospital, I walked about 5-10 minutes at a time, inside the house, several times a day. I didn't want to get very far from the house and not be able to come back.

Yes, you've just had MAJOR surgery, so your body is having to make lots of adjustments! I was about 6 weeks before I really felt GOOD. Then I felt better than I have felt in YEARS!!!! Hang in there.

Scrambled egg, maybe a little melted cheese on it, cottage cheese, pureed tuna, or chicken, add a little light mayo or light ranch, and a little pickle juice to make it taste like tuna or chicken salad. I too, had trouble through that time with getting tired of the same thing over and over, but it won't be forever.

Yes, I do. It helps keep me on track when I see them mess up. Also, I can relate to all their feelings, even though I've never weighed that much. Thinking about "Oh, it'll be ok to do this and that, it won't hurt anything," then seeing that it DOES matter.

Oh, honey, I'm so so very sorry for your dilemma!!! My heart breaks for you!!!! I'm not a surgeon or doctor, but I do believe that nothing is impossible. It sounds like you're already involved in counseling--that would've been my first suggestion. I also know about a group called Celebrate Recovery, which is found all over the country. It's a 12-step, Christ-based program for overcoming "hurts, hangups and habits" of all kinds. You might try to look up your local chapter by googling it. Also, whether you never lose any weight or not, making good food choices is your best bet to stay as healthy as possible. And, who knows, maybe it'll happen for you. But the main thing is to get your mind and heart right!! I pray you'll find some peace.