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Excellent idea! I know what it feels like not to have posts answered. . I have answered some, and will go looking for more unanswered posts right now! Debbie

Thank you Amy and Leigha. Amy, I'm a cookie lover, too, and that's just what I'd go for, but even if I do, it's not a whole package, just a few. And not every day, either. As you said, darn it! Leigha, I love trying on clothes that are too big for me now. It's kind of neat to feel the blouses falling off my shoulders, or pants that aren't snug the way they used to be Some days it's easier to focus on the positive, and just for today, that's where I am. Thank goodness! It's one day at a time for me. Debbie.

I went to get a fill today, and found that I'd gained a pound. Boy! did that depress me! My usual reaction is to say forget it, I knew it wouldn't work, just go ahead and eat whatever you want, because you're going to be fat for the rest of your life anyway! I've been on an antidepressant for five years, so I do function, but I find myself wanting to go to that place. I thought if I had something to eat, (or drink) I'd feel better, but I still feel like I just don't want to try. It's not as bad as it used to be, but I'm afraid I could go back to that place. Can anyone relate to this? Has anyone ever felt this way? Debbie

What foods can a bandster eat? What things are considered as treats? Apples and nuts Are all right for me, but The thing I love most are sweets. Yes I can hear some of you say, That you won't reach your goal that way. Who says that I won't? So what if I don't Get there quickly? I'll reach it some day! Debbie!

A bandster whose band was too tight, Was overtaken by fright. She could keep nothing down, Was afraid she would drown From the P B's and slime in the night! Debbie

There once was a bandster who slimed. He said, "I've done that for the last time! No more bread for me! And the reason? You see, P B ing and sliming's a crime!" Debbie

I know that my band's just a tool, But what it has done is so cool! Now that I've lost some weight, I can put on my skates, And I hope I won't look like a fool! Debbie

I once met a bandster from Lansing, Who asked if I'd like to go dancing. When I answered "yes," I would never have guessed That what he had in mind was--romancing! Debbie

To all the folks at lap band talk, Who ride bikes or treadmill, or take walks, At work, play or rest, You're all just the best! You can't erase this, it ain't chalk! Debbie

Congratulations! How are things? Do you have a surgery date? I know what it feels like to be denied and finally get approved. I fought for almost a year to get my band! I hope everything goes well, and you'll be a bandster soon! Debbie

Way to go :smile:! Welcome to band land! :laugh: Hope everything went well. Let us know when you're feeling up to it! Debbie

Canadian Girl, and ParrotheadCathy, you are perfect examples of why I love this site. Thank you both. I don't think I questioned what I was doing until the day of surgery, but that was because I was afraid of the procedure--being put to sleep. Getting banded is the best thing I could have done for myself, and though I still have a long way to go, I know the weight I have lost is weight I wouldn't have gotten rid of without the band. As someone said, I still eat junk, just much less of it--I've tried that before, and it just led to binges. I exercise at least three times a week, but if I don't I try not to beat myself up about it. Some days are better than others; I definitely have days when I eat more than I should, or make unhealthy choices. . The point is that I'm losing weight; maybe not as quickly as others, but it's coming off, and that's what matters. Good luck, and let us know how things are going for you. Debbie

One day at work, one of the plugs on the switchboard came out of the socket. I don't know how it happened, but, without thinking, I crawled under my desk and plugged it back in. It wasn't until I was sitting back in my chair--with arms--that I realized what I'd done. I used to have to think about that before I could do anything, and boy! was it uncomfortable! That same week I rode in back of a cab with two other people, and I FIT! Comfortably!! And no one else was crushed! Let's hear it for nonscale victories! Debbie

At a support meeting one night, Two bandsters got in to a fight Who knows why they fought! And everyone thought, That in the head, neither was right!

A pre banded gent in Biloxi, Said, "All of this weight really sucks. See I can't move around, No love have I found, The band's bound to change all my luck, see?"

A bandster who went on a trip, Got in trouble and felt her band slip! She went to a doctor, The news he had shocked her, Her trip had a slip and port flip!

A bandster I know in L A, Ran a marathon one bright Sunday. And when she was done, She said, "This was fun! And definitely worth the self pay!"

In the few blogs I have read, in the success stories I've heard, and the bandsters I talk to, I very seldom hear from those who have been successful about the struggles to get where they are. I understand about keeping it positive, but we all know that this journey can be a very hard one. Because I still have such a long way to go, I guess what I'm asking is if there are people for whom the road to success was filled with emotions, and if so, what were they? Maybe it's just me, but I feel like so many success stories make it sound like it's a breeze. I'm at a plateau, have just had another cc put in my band, and have no regrets about getting it. I know success can be achieved with lots of hard work, and I'm quite willing to keep doing that, but I would like to know that it wasn't always a breeze, and why. Debbie.

A bandster went for a fill, And her NP she wanted to kill! She could not find the port And our girl's not the sort Who would lie there without getting ill! :cursing:,

We often decide to get banded When from chairs onto floors we have landed. Once we fit in plane seats, We realize that it's neat! Why we waited? Just can't understand it! Debbie!

Good luck! I was denied several times before my medical group was bought out. I know how disappointed and frustrated I was. Be sure to let us know what happens. Debbie.

I'm really sorry to hear about the chronic cough. You've had it for 20 years, so I'm assuming there is nothing that can be done for it? Did you discuss this with your lap band surgeon? What did he/she think? Your health is definitely important; as you say, you need to be there for your parents. Weight could be an issue in that area, too. I'm sorry I can't be of any help, but I would very much like to know what you decide. I'm willing to offer as much support as I can. Good luck. I'm also hoping you can find a way to keep your band . Debbie

What is the conflict? We'll try to help.

I hope everything goes well. Please let me know what your doctor says. Debbie

Have you been to see your doctor? If your symptoms have improved a bit, does that mean you're still having trouble keeping food down? Even though it didn't happen right after your last fill, I'm wondering if it's possible that your band might be too tight, or maybe a slip? Perhaps someone more knowledgeable than I will come along and suggest other possibilities. Good luck, and let me know how you're doing. Debbie