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who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
The tide of public opinion is turning. The source is a pro-life one, but the surveys it cites are decidedly NOT. Highlights are mine. Second New Poll Shows Majority of Americans are Pro-Life on Abortion A second poll in as many weeks is showing that a majority of Americans are pro-life when it comes to abortion. Last week, a CBS News survey showed over half of the public opposes most or all abortions and now a new poll from Bloomberg News and the Los Angeles Times has found the same thing. The new media survey asked respondents which of four positions "comes closest to your view on abortion." Some 40 percent of those polled said abortion should be illegal 98 percent of the time -- "except in cases of rape, incest and to save the mother’s life." Another 10 percent took a pro-life position that "abortion should be made illegal without any exceptions." Only 44 percent of Americans favor legal abortions, according to the survey, with 31 percent saying they should be "always legal" and just 13 percent saying they should be legal "most of the time." The two media outlets interviewed 1,209 American adults from Oct. 19 to Oct. 22 and their poll has a three percent margin of error. As LifeNews.com reported last week, a CBS News poll found 54 percent of Americans take one of three pro-life positions opposing all or almost all abortions and another 16 percent want more restrictions on it. The October 12-16 poll asked Americans to tell CBS News their "personal feelings" on abortion. The survey found that 16 percent of the public only favors allowing abortions "only to save woman's life" and another 34 percent think abortions should just be allowed in the very rare cases of rape, incest or to save the mother's life. Another four percent of Americans want all abortions to be made illegal. With the Planned Parenthood-affiliated Alan Guttmacher Institute showing that less than two percent of all abortions are done in cases of rape, incest or to save the mother's life, the CBS News poll shows 54 percent of Americans oppose 98 percent of all abortions. According to the survey, just 26 percent of the public wants abortions permitted in all cases. Another 16 percent want abortions to remain legal but to be subject to greater restrictions than they currently face. In total, 70 percent of those polled want abortions illegal in most or all cases or subject to greater restrictions. The CBS News poll was conducted among a random sample of 1,282 adults nationwide, interviewed by telephone October 12-16, 2007. It has a three percentage point margin of error. -
Alternately, if you ARE going to loan out ther money, why don't you ACT like a bank? Tell them, "No problem, I charge 1.5% per month interest and you need to start repaying principal + interest beginning on the 2nd month." Then have them sign a simple IOU with the terms on it.
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who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
Hit the button that says "quote" just below the post you want to quote. The original poster's text will come up in between two bracketed character sets. I'm going to replace the brackets [] with a different type of brackets {} so it doesn't put quotes all over this post, making it weird. The first bracketed character set will say {quote=(person you're quoting);(number of the post)} and the last one will say simply {/quote}. Anything in between these two bracketed character sets will show up as a quote. I hope that made sense. Once you've figured it out, you can split up someone's quote by copying and pasting the first and last bracketed sets wherever you want them. HTH! -
It's because we Californians have our priorities right. Without Starbucks, massages, and pet care, we'd be like fish out of Water. :biggrin1: (Before I get flamed, this is a JOKE. What the New Orleans people went through was truly awful. Being a Californian, though, I couldn't resist.)
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How about, "I'm still recovering financially from the last time I loaned someone money."
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who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
We live in a fallen world. No one's life is perfect. Bitterness and anger in no way compare to dismemberment. Abortion is the ultimate child abuse! I am a big believer in pregnancy prevention, both temporary and permanent. What green went through, not being able to be sterilized because of the law in France -- when she KNEW she didn't want to have kids -- and subsequently ending up with an unplanned pregnancy, is unconscionable (on the part of the government). -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
It is a bad thing if it mentally helps you oppress someone. There is no correlation between an unwanted pregnancy and child abuse. There have been numerous studies on the subject, and what has been found is that most abused children are wanted and planned. I completely agree. But once the child exists, it becomes a totally different issue. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
When that particular brand of religiosity infringe on another's rights. And in the case of abortion, the baby's rights are being infringed upon. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
I don't think you're mad at all. I know a lot of people with many kids (two families with 10) and they're incredible people. Personally, if I had been younger when I started having kids I probably would have had more than 2, but I'm too old and tired now. This is a VERY interesting statement. I would submit that this is how many mothers feel when they're planning abortion. They suppress the thought that the unborn child is a human life because if they don't acknowledge it, it's much easier to proceed with the abortion. Pro-life clinics have discovered that if they show mothers an ultrasound of their unborn babies, the incidence of choosing life over abortion increases exponentially. Abortion-minded mothers "can't afford" to let themselves consider what's growing inside of them; they "can't afford to let them be" babies -- like somehow it's their, the mother's, decision that determines what they, the babies, are. That's why the abortion industry comes up with euphemisms like "blob of tissue" or "product of conception". Dehumanization always makes oppression easier. I appreciate your thoughtful posts, Nina. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
What if your religious tradition said the baby wasn't a life until age 5? When does science and the law supercede "religious tradition"? -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
There is no such thing as "potential life". Either it's life or it's not. You can't have a "potential thought". Either you have a thought or you don't. The unborn baby is a life WITH POTENTIAL, not a potential life. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
Should people have the right to make that decision for themselves? Yes. For others? Not without their consent, no. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
How many disabilities do you have? Was your life worth the cost? -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
If we determine who lives and who dies based on cost, we ought to start killing off the disabled and the elderly. Social security wouldn't be an issue if, upon retirement, you were euthanized. You've had a good life. Say goodnight, Gracie. -
I had mine during surgery and someone advised me not to wear a tampon because it might be difficult to reach to remove it after surgery. I'm glad I had that advice because it would have been. They gave me a pad and mesh underwear and it was fine. Believe me, they see blood all day, every day; a little more won't have any impact.
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No issues here! Just that the bars holding you in go down a lot further
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who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
Viability is a measure of medical technology, not of human-ness. Did you know scientists are working on artificial placentas so babies can be supported even earlier than they are now? How will this impact your -- can I say arbitrary? -- settlement on 28 weeks? I brought this up a lot earlier in the discussion in a hypothetical question. The issue is that these mothers don't just want to be "not pregnant". They don't want a baby with their heredity running around causing problems for them later in life. They want a dead baby. In that case, we'd be better off killing the old rather than the young. In some places they are. A pregnant mother already HAS a baby. No one (except in the case of rape) forced her to get pregnant. All I'm saying is the law should compel her not to kill that baby once he or she is already there. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
The question was asked -- of the ones that survive, what is their outcome. This study doesn't define disability. If you look at the statistics of disabilities that seriously impede one's life (not a disability that's relatively easy to live with), you'll find a significantly different number. Nevertheless, a disability doesn't contraindicate life. As would I. Of course it is always better for the baby to go to full term. I told you there were others that I was looking for that were 18 weeks. If you'd like, I'll hunt some more. You have to remember, these were pre-internet days, so you're not likely to find a news story of them. I remember a while back a woman on this board reported a story of a crime that had been committed against her family. Someone said they googled it and didn't find it, and therefore she must have made it up. As it so happened, it had occurred in the 70's and therefore there was no news story about it. The internet and the articles to be found therein are not comprehensive. My apologies for overlooking gestational vs. fetal age. And again, I am sorry for the losses of your precious children. Many people sob during an abortion, so it might have been par for the course. However, that is ABSOLUTELY NO EXCUSE for anyone's treating you poorly. I'm not them but I do apologize on their behalf. You should never have been treated like that. I have friends who have chosen to abort and friends who have chosen to give their children life. Down the the very last one, the ones who have chosen to abort deeply regret their decision. Regardless of their choices, our friendships have endured, and they would have endured if abortion were illegal. Well I'm glad we can come to some consensus. How do you reconcile this belief with a belief in a mother's "right" to choose what to do with "her" body when she's pregnant? -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
Since you won't -- or can't -- answer the question posed, I can only surmise that you made up the scenario of the woman who "had" to have a partial-birth abortion. If abortion solved the problem of unwanted kids, we wouldn't have any. YOU provided the statistics, the pie-chart. Not me. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
I assume, at this hour, that you've already hit the hay. Yet despite your research into where there might be facilities that don't do late term abortions (which doesn't prove that there aren't facilities that DO), and into the history of Roe v. Wade and Doe v. Bolton (which proved my claim that Doe guaranteed abortion up until birth), and a lovely pie-chart showing that a small percentage of abortions are done after 20 weeks, still no answer to this question. I'll rephrase just in case you missed it. Why is it ever medically necessary to brutally kill a baby that is 3/4 of the way delivered? Why not just finish the delivery and make every effort to assist the baby in survival? The mom's already gone through labor, already had her cervix dilated, already delivered the feet, legs, and torso of the baby. She's going to deliver the head regardless of whether the abortionist sucks the brains out or not. What earthly reason can there be to kill the baby at that point? -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
1,600,000 abortions in the US per year (approximate number as presented by the abortion industry) x 1.4% of abortions performed 20 weeks or later = 22,400 viable babies killed every year x 34 years since Roe and Doe = 761,600 viable babies killed in the past 34 years in the US alone. 761,600 viable babies killed. And this isn't a holocaust? -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
I'm not sure why you posted this -- it's a very concise history and actually says what I've been saying all along. I will highlight a few key phrases to demonstrate that abortion was made legal, through Doe v. Bolton, through 9 months of pregnancy. What I said a few posts ago was: I guess I should say thank you for finally agreeing with me, or at least for acknowledging my point. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
But that isn't what you said originally. You said, "Abortions are given up until the 4th month, if that...beyond that it HAS to be medically necessary" and accused me of spreading propaganda. Of course there are places that stop at different weeks -- for different reasons. Some may be curtailed by (recent) state law, some may not have the equipment to do late-term abortions, and some abortionists may not have the stomach to do late-term abortions. However, to flatly say abortion is only legal through 4 months and beyond that it has to be medically necessary is incorrect and is, in fact, propaganda in and of itself. You did the same thing with the claim that the Bible approves of and encourages slavery; when I demonstrated that was not the case, you changed your claim, saying that people USED the Bible (incorrectly) to defend slavery. Two very different claims. It's very easy to change your argument when it's done in a dialogue. When it's in black and white for anyone to go back and refer to, it gets a bit more tricky. -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
He didn't diagnose. Given the information provided: a 5 month pregnant woman with a clot in her lung, is a partial-birth abortion ever a medical necessity? Answer: no. If there's more information you'd like to provide, I can add to the scenario for him. The fact remains, you still won't answer the question. Why not deliver the baby alive? -
who supports right to choose
gadgetlady replied to 396power's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
Didn't take long to find this: Safer Abortion: Safe Second Trimester Abortions to 24 Weeks at Liberty Women's - NYC, NY and Planned Parenthood - Abortion Services - Surgical and Outpatient second-trimester D&E abortion through 24 menstrual weeks’ gestation and Fees I won't continue. It is obvious from the above that you are the one pushing propaganda and spin. Abortion is legal through 9 months of pregnancy, easily found through 6 months. I don't know from where you have received your information, but it is clearly and demonstrably wrong.