Hi there,
I am five days post-op, and I struggled with the decision of whether or not to tell people about having the surgery.
My parents both know, as well as my brother. I still live at home, so it would be pretty hard to hide it from them! They are all supportive. It took a while for my Mum to come around to the idea, but then again, she has never had a weight problem. It was actually my Dad who convinced her
Some of my friends know that I have just had a small operation on my stomach - I have long standing digestive system "issues" and so they think it's related to that. Otherwise, I don't really feel the need to let anyone else know at the moment.
I think it's a fear thing, you know? Like, say I don't lose any weight. Then i'll have to deal with all the people I told asking me "What happened?" Maybe when I get close to goal I will let a few people in, but that's a while away yet. A lot of time to think :eek:
Thanks for all your posts, banders. It feels so good to get other people's views, and "get things off your chest".
Even though I haven't posted much, I've mostly just been lurking, you have been my support system!
Cheers,
Annie xox