Hi all, thanks for the replies and your advice. Sloppy foods would be like baby foods, I think and hope that due to the complications that I had a week later everything will start to calm down again soon. I am starting to get increased energy levels, each day is a better day :-), due to see the surgeon at week 6 so I hope by then to at least enjoy a soft cheese and/or small bits of chicken.
Sad but reassured that others have experienced what I am going through, at least I know that there will be and end at some point, support over here is nonexistent you are given a number to call if you have any issues and then you get pushed out the door to get on with it.
God Bless you all and Happy Thanks Giving to you and your families, will keep you updated as a go through all the different phases and be very grateful for advise.