what you have described sounds EXACTLY like what I'm experiencing myself. I have lost about 43 pounds since being banded in April, but have only had one fill, my second is scheduled for the first week of September, but I haven't lost anything for two weeks. I just ate dinner, and had no problem and ate almost as much as before the band, also other times I can't even get one bite down. I went on LBT to try to re-motivate myself - I have been eating like crap quite honestly. It is hard when you don't feel any restriction most of the time, and can't seem to stick with the healthy foods. I do'nt know what size band I have, I know I have 4cc's in there now though. I think the key for us is to remember to eat the healthy foods before anything else until we can talk with our doctors. On top of now being able to eat whatever I want - now I'm losing my hair...grrr. Sorry, I'm kind of rambling, I don't know if it is helping at all.
I could use a buddy right now, too. :-)