Went to my first appointment on Tuesday. Need sleep study, nutrition visits, psych, EDG and physician visits for 6 months for Aetna approval. BMI is 49.5. Concerned about loose skin, not being able to enjoy family ethnic foods and regretting not trying again on my own. The more I read, the more confused I get. One minute I am all in the next I think it is too drastic of a surgery. Can some one please help me ease my mind? I am tired of being sick and tired and not living life.