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Okay so this is going to be a long one so my apologies in advance. I just need help and someone who understand somewhat what I'm going threw. I am 2 years 2 months and 4 days post RNY gastric bypass. I started this journey almost 3 years ago. I chose to take more time then you had to going to the dietitian to make sure 1 I couldn't do this with out the surgery and 2nd to make sure I was 100% ready and prepared for the long road ahead of me. My heaviest I was over 300lbs I stopped weighing myself when I got to 300 ???? at surgery I weighed 269 lbs and I am just over 5'5.5 in height. I had my surgery in Seattle Wa. At a hospital known for weight lost surgery and with a Dr. That has been doing this for years. The surgery for what we knew went well till the next day as they where telling me to get ready to go home just 24 hours post surgery I just had to pee first. I was so excited to be able to go home and be in my own bed but as I went to the bathroom (without help) to try and pee I started to feel as if something was wrong. I pulled the card I could tell I was gonna pass out. The following thing I know my husband walks in and finds me passed out and blood everywhere. Said it looked like a murder scene. From the time I went into the bathroom from the time my hubs got there 30 mins had passed and still no Nurse had responded to the pulled cord not pushed button but pulled cord. Finally my husband starts yelling for help and they come running. As it turns out I had a internal GI bleed that was being digested and going threw my tract and flowing out my rectum. I bleed out into my gut. I was transfered to the ICU for a week while I healed and got better. So you would think that was the worst of it right.... But nope I had issues with being able to even swallow liquids. They the nurses and Dr. Kept telling me it will pass it will pass finally after about 4 months they started doing tests and they found out I had a huge ulcer. So they say that's the issue take these meds. My question was why did I have a ulcer I don't ever or have ever taken any aspirin or ibuprofen. No answer. So I take the meds and still pain nausea and unable to eat. So I finally go see my PCP and he takes 1 look at my labs and say its your gallbladder if they are not willing to take it out I will send you someplace else. So I tell my bariatric surgeon this and they act immediately and run the test well turns out my Gallbladder was only working a 2% to be able to take it out you have to be under 32% so I have the surgery in April of 2015 to remove my Gallbladder. After I heal from this I still have severe abdominal pain nausea and do not tolerate anything! I was hospitalized a few times for malnutrition and other issues with my nutrition and blood levels and the bariatric Dr I had the nurse finally told me you just need to eat more... I have been telling them I CAN NOT EAT!!! I also at this point have been going into the infusion clinic to get IV liquids and nutrition. But there answer to the issue was to eat more. Finally after my PCP seeing the issues I've had loosing my hair and not able to even walk I was dying slowly dying refers me to another Bariatric Dr. At this point in have gone 1 year and 4 months and no joke 15 mins into my appointment with the new Dr. He does a simple test and finds out I 1 have a stricture and 2nd I have a candy cane deformity so he immediately schedules me for my 1st revision on my bypass to dilate the stricture and remove the candy cane. So things where going better after I heal from that surgery but still have some pain and lots of nausea so I go another 7 months with having issues and finally go back to my new bariatric Dr. He finds a kink lower down in the first new curve of my small bowel. So 1 year and 11 months after my original bypass surgery and 7 after my 1st revision surgery I'm back in to have another revision and the hope is that this will be the end. After this surgery I will be out of pain and can finally eat. Well I healed fairly fast with this last surgery and I can eat drink per and poo all on my own and I couldn't be happier there I am finally able to start living life 2 years later but I seem to not to be able to stop loosing weight. I have lost all my fat at this point and they say I am now loosing muscle. I weigh as of today 118lbs and they say 20 lbs of that is extra skin. I eat what I'm suppose to even more to try and gain weight but nothing I will stay at the same weight for about a month then loose anywhere from 2-5 lbs I am at a loss I don't know what to do anymore and my husband is also he says its so hard to watch the love of your life slowly die and there is nothing you can do about it but just watch them waist away. This broke my heart. This is affecting everyone around me not just me. We also have 3 kids my daughter who is only 17 years old has kinda had to take over the house and my twin 15 year old boys are just hanging in there asking when will I get better. When will they get there mom back. I just do t know what to do anymore. I knew there was a possibility of complications but my original surgeon said it was less then 1% of people have any at all. Well it seems as if I have gotten to short stick and have gotten every one except death but honestly how much longer till then if I can't stop loosing weight now even tho I eat and eat and eat. Please help has anyone been threw anything like this or has advice on how to help would be appreciated. Thanks so much for listening well reading my long post but mostly my long road of heartache Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

I did and she did Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Tired of people always placing blame on the patient. People always assume I'm doing something wrong Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

@@ella37 She isn't the only one who has had issues and people shouldn't assume that it is there fault cuz guess what I told my surgeon everything!!!! And I still have so many problems and issues and I have regretted it now for over 2 years!!!! I have actually told everyone NOT to have it done and my husband as well who had it 5 weeks after I did also tells people to really think about it he don't really regret it like I do for himself but he is wanting to talk out against bariatric surgery! Because when things go wrong they go REALLY REALLY WRONG Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Thank you for your help and info it helps to just check to make sure my Dr. Is doing things that others think of. Dr.s are not perfect and over look things all the time Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Funny you ask that.... My PCP just checked it. Its in normal rage but on the high end of normal went to the specialist and they are not concerned. But in 2 weeks are still gonna do the scan just to make sure! Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Really... I would much rather be fat and happy. Lol but I wasn't having any health problems I wanted to prevent health issues. My husband was having health issues and so we went threw this together as a team and I ended up with so many complications. Sucks that I did it more of a preventative and also as a support to my husband and ended up with the problems but also kinda funny lol Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Yes I do very much so my husband also had bypass 5 weeks after me and he regrets it as well Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Keep me updated! I will keep you on my prayer list! Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

O my goodness I had no idea a sleeve can twist Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

As long as we put our faith in the Lord and hold his hand I believe he is gonna guide me threw this Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App What is revision surgery? Sent from my SM-G903W using the BariatricPal App What is revision surgery? Gastric bypass? Sent from my SM-G903W using the BariatricPal App It is where they have to revise something with your bypass. Basically go in and fix something that is wrong with your bypass. Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Your surgeon will help you. I don't think exercising is a good idea right now. If you can't eat, make sure that you are drinking Water all the time. I couldn't eat soft food for nearly 13 weeks. I drank bone broth, clear Soups and water. There are people here with symptoms but sometimes these forums aren't a place where people can talk freely about problems so they don't always post. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App Thanks for the support Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

They have already done 2 revision surgery's fixed a obstruction as well. I feel better but I still can't stop loosing. My body won't retain any nutrition. Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Thank you and please keep me updated on yourself! Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

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As long as we put our faith in the Lord and hold his hand I believe he is gonna guide me threw this Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Thank you and I am sorry you as well are having issues. I will put you on my prayer list! Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Thank you Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Thank you. ???? Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Will do and thank you Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

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Yes I have continued to see my bariatric nutritionist i also so a dietitian threw my G.I. Dr. So I see 2 of them and they work together and have a plan but it isn't working Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Thank you Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

Chewable gas x helps relive the pain and symptoms of dumping syndrome. Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App

I would always tell people never go with the RNY bypass I have had nothing but complication after complication and have spent more time in the hospital then not Sent from my LGLS992 using the BariatricPal App