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What are you guys wearing to the beach or pool after you have lost some considerable amount of weight but have not had skin removal and the skin has not tightened. I lost about a hundred pounds so far, still have a few more to go but I'll be going to Florida in about 6 months and I'll be going to many pools this spring/summer with my newborn. Are there any decent swim wet shirts or wet suits shirts that do a decent job hiding imperfections such as loose skin, still some fat and moobs? I am not a fan of regular t-shirts because they get so heavy, stretch out and suction to your body. I get wet suits clings to your body but if it hides imperfections then it's worth it. Regular Ts def do not.

Any one have good recommendations on compression/slimming shirts you have found successful? I am finally in an XL down from a 5XL,however, I still have a little of a belly, mainly just fat, and it looks like I am smuggling a tire.

Thanks I'll look in to them. Does any one have any suggestions on best brands and places to go and try them on?

Thanks, it looks like they have a nice selection. Do they normally run the right size or should I get a size smaller/bigger?

Started at 350 in October 2016 Surgery at 235 in May 2017 Down to 244

What are some of your favorite and enjoyable exercises that you have witnessed be the most successful?

Not sure if this has been covered but I am curious to see if anyone had a dream job they always wanted to do and were able to finally go after that dream after surgery.

I was just sleeved with O'Malley on 5/12. Pretty much had the same experience except I didn't vomit. Thank god because it would have been very painful.

May 12th

Anyone on here 3+ years post op that can discuss their thoughts and feelings of the wls? Are you still happy with your decision? Have you come across things that were not covered in your pre-op stage?

Who had the surgery in what season and was there any pros or cons to each. I am thinking summer will allow me to Be up and mobile as much as possible and get right into my new routine. or is winter better for the first few months?

Has wls prevented anyone from being able to do or get disqualified from something? Ex. Obtain a job they always wanted

Because there isn't much information from people past three years. Also, by that point you are further removed from the surgery and the novelty of the weight loss. I am assuming that by that time, it is more just everyday life than something new and exciting.

So I just started the process, I have my first appointment/ Nutrition group on Monday and up until 2 days ago I have been very excited and fully committed. This is something different for me because I have commitment issues and I am always thinking about the what ifs and always scared to make the wrong decision, can I live with that decision for the rest of my life? but with the surgery I was 100% committed and knew it was what I wanted to do for myself, my wife, and future offsprings. 2 days ago I read a post about a woman who completely regrets her decision to get the wls and her struggles with most of the aspects around it. While I was reading the story, I thought to myself that her regrets were because of her many complications, some possibly caused by previous health issues and that it did not mean that I would have the same outcome. Aside from being extra fluffy and a recent diagnosis of high blood pressure I am actually pretty healthy. I read the story, everyone's reactions and put it aside, however, for some reason I keep thinking about that it and this woman's issues and regrets. I am constantly thinking about what are all the possible issues that could arise from this surgery? Could I handle them for the rest of my life. Is it worth it? Am I going to want to be on Vitamins the rest of my life? That same day, my dream of joining the military after weight loss was also crushed because the military disqualifies wls patients. In addition, there are possibilities of insurance issues in the future. How will this affect me? What else will be affected from my life because of this? It's funny because I am thinking, what else will I miss because of this surgery? let's be honest I am probably missing a million more things because of my weight. Could my weight be a cause of sleep apnea?(i am working on getting a study now) if I do and use a cpap, will I all of a sudden get enough energy and be able to loose the weight? Do I have hypothyroidism? I have had blood work done and my level shows that I am fine but everyone on my mothers side including my sister have had the same result. Eventually, they get someone to agree to complete an MRI of the thyroid and sure enough, they are diagnosed with hypothyroidism. Could this be the result of my excessive weight? If I get someone to agree to the MRI and the result is positive will I stop being fluffy after treatment ? These forums are filled with people that are ecstatic with their decision to get wls but not very many of people past the 2 year mark. Obviously everyone is happy at first and has that honeymoon phase (After the immediate regret phase of course) so they share and maintain in contact with the people that helped them through it for a little bit. What happens after 2 years? Does everyone just move on with life and not have time because their new found freedom? Do they decrease communications to separate themselves from being something other than a wls patient? Do they not post because of regrets? Are they still happy? How do they feel about the constant maintenance? It will always be difficult but does it get easier? Does it become routine? Why isn't there much information and experiences about the long term? Welcome to the inside of my brain. #chaos What dreams have come true or been crushed because of wls? What have you done that you would have never in a million years thought you'd be able to do? (Ex. Become a police officer) I have so many more questions I can't even think of them right now. I may post more as they come in. Thanks for reading, it felt good to let someone know.

Has anyone joined a branch of the military after being successful with wls ? How did you handle boot camp, more specifically the eating and Vitamins? I hear you have to eat super quick and you may not get your necessary amount of Protein.

Great insight from everyone. Many great points brought up, some things i didn't even think to take into consideration. Thank you. Fell free to keep them coming.

Did the drive home bother anyone? Bumps or nausea from too long of a trip? I am planning on getting mine done 1 1/2 hours from home and would prefer to rest in my own home after surgery but would this be too long of a ride right after the hospital?

Does everyone get gerd? Is there a known cause to this? Can the patient do anything to prevent it aside from medication and food avoidance? Will you always have gerd going forward? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Has anyone done the surgery with a doctor that is out of their immediate area, like 45 mins or more? Does the doctor handle these situations any differently? Is it more complicated? Are there things that can be done close to home? How often do you need to see the doctor pre and post? Would anyone suggest against it? Why? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

So I am looking to start my journey and have a few questions about fertility, pregnancy and kids. My wife and I will begin in vitro fertilization at the beginning of the year. How does the Sleeve wls impact sperm count and quality ? I was thinking of having the surgery while she was pregnant. Is this a bad idea? Would a pregnancy and my wls be too much to handle at once? I would not want to take away from her experience or not be able to do something for her because of the surgery. If both of the ideas above are not very good, what about wls with a new born? As mentioned before, I would prefer to get the surgery before or right as she becomes pregnant but I am concerned sperm count and quality will be impacted. In vitro is very expensive and may require multiple attempts so I do not want to jeopardize her not being able to be pregnant because of the wls. I understand most may not be doctors here but any input from what you have learned through the journey would be greatly appreciated. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App