No you are not alone, my husband and I have different views on how to spend our money. He is a real mans man. He loves his Jeep and his waverunner, and his snowblower and generator. But when it comes to something that I might want, he usually says well honey I was saving up for something for the jeep maybe next time, after all you did get your surgery...But together we have a beautiful baby girl who is almost 2 and I just think about her and then I remember that I do love my husband (even if he does get on my last nerve) and our daughter and am very lucky to have them both. But there are times I wish I could take an unexpected trip to Las Vegas with the girls and not have anyone to answer to. Ha Ha Ha...