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Not a fan of the premier protein shakes either, which is a shame because I think we bought a whole case at Costco and I have a lot left to get through. I do love the PB2 powder you can add for a little extra protein and it tastes great with any chocolate shake, so hopefully I'll be able to get through them that way. For premade shakes, I prefer the EAS advantage. I used to love making my own shakes, but I'm not far out pre op and find its so much easier right now just to be able to grab it already made out of the fridge. I really highly recommend unflavored protein powder, too. I have only tried Unjury unflavored protein powder, and find half a scoop mixes really well with my yogurt. But I know the Isopure gets a lot of positive recommendations on the boards, so it's probably all down to taste. Whichever one you go with, it can really help to get your protein in.

I like the Unjury unflavored protein because I can pack a lot of protein into my yogurt and it doesn't throw off the taste (I just do half a scoop). Pre surgery I loved GNC's optimum nutrition platinum hydro whey, but right now that's too much for my stomach to handle so I'm liking the EAS advantage premixed shakes, because I can have half then put the rest in the fridge if I'm not able to drink it all at once. I don't love the premier protein shakes but they seem really popular on the boards. For vitamins, I like the celebrate chewable with iron, but wish I didn't have to have 2 as the serving size.

I had my lap RNY May 25 and was in the hospital 5 days. When I got home I weighed myself. I had been hovering around 336 preop, and weighed in at 344 (from the IV fluids). Today I weighed in at 318. I'm getting in my protein goal every day, not doing as well on the water but I'm trying, and staying around 600 calories per day. I know my weight loss is the exception and not the rule. Don't get discouraged, and just try to remind yourself you 6 months from now is going to look AND feel very different from you right now. I have the same problem with water as you. So you're not alone! Have you tried the Unjury unflavored protein powder? I add that to basically anything I can - just a half a scoop packs in a lot of extra protein and I find mixes really well with yogurt.

I had no idea this was even a possibility!! The thought definitely never would have crossed my mind. Thanks for the heads up, ladies!

Hi guys, first I'm really sorry to post this because I'm sure it's been posted many times before. Unfortunately, the website won't load on my iPad at all anymore unless I wait about half an hour, and the search function on the app won't search the whole site or returns results that aren't relevant. It's barely functional on my iPad. So if you could help a girl out, I'd be so so grateful! My RNY surgery is scheduled for May 25. I think I have a good handle on what I'll need food wise since I have a detailed manual from the surgeon's office. I've got sugar free Jello, Unjury unflavored & chicken soup flavored protein on the way. One of those big insulated cups that keeps my water ice cold. I'll be picking up a few other things too, like crystal light for the unflavored protein powder, veggie broth, that zero calorie Gatorade, etc. But other than the food stuff, I'm not sure what would be helpful. I feel like there must be other things I should have, and Im really at a loss!! Do I need a food scale? Some kind of....bariatric sized Tupperware type containers? I'm wracking my brain and just don't know!! What was helpful for you the first few months post op? What could you not live without? Thanks soooo much guys!!!

Thank you for your reply James. I have a few months of liquid and/ or chewable vitamins on hand for the first few months. As long as these seem to be working well for me, I may continue to use them. I'll also look for another set (or two) of Measuring cups that carry the less common sizes. Thank you for the link to your blog.

Katriena, thank you so much for the reply. I keep feeling like time is ticking out and I don't want to realize last minute I've forgotten something I'll need! I'll google for one of the plates you're talking about, and make sure to bring the mini storage containers I have with me too. thank you again!

Oh girl I feel for you. I really do. I'm sorry you feel so little support from your family. This is a huge, life changing thing, and you're gonna need their support to be successful. My surgery is scheduled for the day after yours, May 25. I'm not packed yet but I waffle back and forth between scared and excited. Please let me know how everything goes for you. I'll be thinking of you on your surgery day. Are there any other support groups by where you live? If not, they have online OA meetings almost 24/7. I've been to a few and found them really helpful and welcoming. There are some OA meetings here, but they're kind of on weird days and times so I haven't made it to one yet.

I too originally chose the sleeve. Had the surgery scheduled and everything. In fact, I would have already had my surgery over & done with if I'd proceeded with the sleeve, and I think (ok, I know) my family would have felt more comfortable with that decision. They feel it's safer, easier recovery, and lower complications. But my bmi is just over 50, and I'm extremely concerned I will not lose all the weight with the sleeve. I'll be honest. I'm not going through this to lose "most" of the weight. I'm bound and determined I will get to a healthy weight for my bmi come hell or high water. I have some issues now with acid reflux, and although I've not been diagnosed with GERD, I'm afraid the sleeve would exacerbate it. And I don't want to have to have one surgery, only to have to have the RNY further down the line. I think the dumping (if I'm one of the ones who have that) will be a bonus for me given my particular issues with food. I guess my biggest reason is....my head and my heart are in agreement that i truly feel this is the best choice for ME. Please be aware I don't think one surgery is better than the other, I don't necessarily agree with my family's opinion, (insert all the other caveats and disclaimers here). All I can do, and all any of us can do, is make the best choice we can for ourselves, and be supportive of each other whatever that choice is. I wish you the absolute best with your surgery and hope everything goes well.

I have the exact same fears!! I have a small toddler, and I almost chose the vsg, even though I didn't feel it was the right surgery for me, solely because of the lower complication rate. I've also been very concerned about the possible, though rare, complications down the line. Sending good thoughts for a safe surgery and quick recovery your way.

Great job!! Please keep updating us on your progress.

I'm a recovering alcoholic and have also been sober nearly 9 years. I've heard other recovering alcoholics talk about transferring addictions in the rooms, but I haven't heard a whole lot of people speak specifically about struggling with food addiction issues. I abuse food too. I find I get the same kind of mental obsession with it as I did with alcohol. I see a lot of similarities with overeating as I do my alcoholism.

I found your post really inspiring! I know all too well the feeling of cutting yourself off from social interaction due to weight, or restrictions from your weight. I hope I'm as successful as you've been with the life modifications.

You look beautiful!

I haven't been in your shoes, but I do have a small child and I can only imagine how difficult this must be. It sounds like you've been through a lot of major life changes in the past couple of years (parenthood is certainly one too). Have you considered talking to a therapist or counselor about some of the stuff that's going on? With all these major changes, I hope you'll take the time to let this be about YOU right now. Become comfortable with yourself. Don't worry about a him right now.

I wouldn't consider the band. Many patients have had long term complications, and a lot of surgeons will no longer perform this type of surgery anymore for that reason. Between those two options, I would choose the sleeve.

A lot of members have issues with food addiction, myself included. Have you considered attending an Overeaters Anonymous meeting?

You look so handsome. Great job!!

You're so pretty, and you look amazing!

I have never told my husband my weight. When we met, I was in the best physical shape of my life and was extremely active and had very healthy, strict eating habits. Now I'm at my highest weight. His feelings for me have never changed and he's still as attracted to me as ever, but the truth is I've gained 100lbs. He tells me the number won't change how he looks at me, but I'm terrified it will. I am afraid he will look at me with disgust if he knows how fat I really am, like how I look at myself. That's why he doesn't know how much I weigh, because I am deeply, deeply ashamed.

I'm having the same problem on an iPad. Can't even browse most of the forum topics.