I know where you are coming from, I even have a date set,and I am still not sure. I set the date without all the facts. I thought I could eat the same foods I have always eaten just smaller amounts, but I asked the question How much and what do you eat? The responce from some was such a small amount of food like the one claimed she eats 5 almonds for lunch and she was full, I'm not sure I want to bring on a kind of forced starvation. I turned to Doctors they tell me alot of what people are claiming is'nt true, that they probably eat more but just are not saying, I do not know why they would lie. The people on this site are sooo frendly and helpful. In the mean time I have started to diet I am trying several kinds and I have lost 20 pounds during my research. I might not meet the weight requirement if my life style change sticks, only 5 more pounds to be under a 40 bmi. I am going to a semniar to hear from doctors and hopfuly meet people who already have the lap-band face to face. I gained 100 pounds of my weight over the past 3 or 4 years and I ahve never tried to diet, that is another reason I am wondering if I tried hard enough to lose it.