It's been almost three years since I've been banded, lost 100 lbs. Please do not be fearful of this lapband hell they describe, everyone reacts differently and in large part these difficulties are determined by what you eat. Even if you do have to "get sick", it is almost like a burb and you'll feel immediately better. This really changed my entire life and I congratulate you on making this decision. Wishing you all the best!