Hi everyone, hope y'al are doing well. I am 14 days post opp, and I found out 2day I am very dehydrated. I'm very dizzy, sluggis, achy, n everything. But my real problem is I have no support. My sister thinks because I am out of work, I am her personal slave. Since Ive been out of the hospital Ive gone grocery shopping for ger twice, and had to prepare dinner for her kids beacause she had the "flu". I tell people I cant do much and they tell me Im over reacting I didnt have major surgery, it was a minor procedure because it was laparoscopic, and I need to stop being lazy and get up and move.
Even when I try eating something, my mother and sister make comments to me about why am I think about is food and eating. I just started on mushy food and I only had a half a meatball. Then abiut 5 hrs later I had a piece of cheese. They said I should never had went for the surgery because I feel hungry at times. The said I focus to much on food and I'm gonna be fat for the rest of my life. I dont understand Did I eat to much? Then my boyfriend of 11 yrs just broke up with me for reasons I don't even know. i'm really counting on him for his support. he won't even talk to me. I just feel so alone and I feel like I'm not going to succeed. I'm only down 8lbs since my surgery date. Am i failing already this soon? Did I make a mistake foing thru with the surgery? Thanks for listening.
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