krazykristen

I had my gastric sleeve surgery yesterday as well. I am in a ton of pain and really uncomfortable. I haven't had liquids since Tuesday night since they have to do a leak test at 830 this morning. Counting down the hours because my throat is so sore and dry and i have a raspy voice. Didn't think the pain would hurt this much Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Thank you! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App Awesome! Good luck to you as well! I had preop today and that got me excited lol Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Hi! I'm 25 and I just made a Tumblr page. I plan to keep it updated on my journey before and after surgery. I have my preop scheduled for tomorrow and my surgery scheduled for next Wednesday, October 5th. Here's my blog if you'd like to follow! http://kristenvsg.tumblr.com/ xoxo

Hey everyone! I have my preop scheduled for tomorrow and my surgery scheduled for next Wednesday, October 5th and I made a Tumblr to post blogs of my journey if any of you are interested. I only have one post so far but I'm making it so I can stay accountable and share my experience. Check it out if you'd like! http://kristenvsg.tumblr.com/ <3 xoxo

Luckily we don't have his son full time, only a few weekends a month. But yeah I am just gonna see how I feel. I told him he hurt my feelings by saying this surgery wasnt major and he apologized for it and didnt realize how serious it is. Only 9 more days until my surgery. Cant wait!!!!! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Thank you guys! Yalls advice is really helpful I havent shown him what the surgery is visually so maybe I could give that a try. I guess what bothers me is he doesnt seem that excited about it, but is that normal? Like hes happy Im doing this for my health but at the same time I dont think he knows what to say to me. Im stoked for my surgery but idk if hes acting that way because he doesnt care or if its because he doesnt know much about it Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

It seems to be that way. Its always all about him and his kid and it frustrates me. This is the ONE thing I have chosen to take control of my life and he acts like its no big deal. Im tired of worrying about other people and not myself. That's why Im so overweight Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App Sweetie, this is all about you. Trust me, he can replace you for another babysitter. I hope you value yourself as a human being to stand up for yourself. He will be very threatened by your surgery and weight loss. No matter, so long as you expect it. There are many women her who have experienced this and will reach out to you. Be firm, be strong, do not waffle. If he is the love of your life hopefully you will know it soon. You can do this, you will find your strength I promise you. You won't be the same, you will demand more for yourself as a partner in life.Thank you I appreciate that ♡ Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

It seems to be that way. Its always all about him and his kid and it frustrates me. This is the ONE thing I have chosen to take control of my life and he acts like its no big deal. Im tired of worrying about other people and not myself. That's why Im so overweight Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App You seem like a smart girl with a good head on your shoulders. You'll figure this out Keep us posted on your progress and whether you end up killing this guy Will do and thank you lmao Im at the point where I have to be selfish and maybe that sounds conceited but Im tired of worrying about everyone else. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

It seems to be that way. Its always all about him and his kid and it frustrates me. This is the ONE thing I have chosen to take control of my life and he acts like its no big deal. Im tired of worrying about other people and not myself. That's why Im so overweight Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

My thoughts exactly. Thats how he is Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App Im happy you are no longer in pain I have daily back pain and knee pain and I'm only 25. Im also 258 and 5'4. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Oh yeah. Im pretty good at taking care of myself but I have friends and family who are super supportive. Im just not feeling that secure with our relationship at the moment. Theres a lot going on so I dont really know how to handle this. I see so many stories of people who break up after surgery and its hard to think about. But at the same time I gotta do what makes me happy and losing weight and feeling good about myself will get me there so Im not letting anyone ruin my happiness anymore Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

I would need a roommate. And I know. But at this point Im just saying screw it and focusing on myself and if he can't hang then PEACE! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Unfortunately the apartment is in my name and I cant get out of it until next June. He has no where to go if I kicked him out. I have family I can stay with but sometimes I think I stay because Im so insecure. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Youre right, and part of me just wants to be alone through this process... idk. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Lmaooooo you made me laugh. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App