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You don't know me but I'm proud of people like you because you keep me going strong. Good luck Mrs. OCTOBER YOU CAN DO IT AND MORE! Sent from my SM-G935V using the BariatricPal App

Admanda I hope the support you receive from this site is enough to keep you encouraged, in the mean time I would suggest that you seek out a qualified and licenced therapist to hear your concerns. It could make a huge difference in your being successful in your surgery goals. As far as your other half, he has some decisions to make about the relationship because he what he is doing is a form of abuse, and being abused never helped anyone achieve anything. Because the abuser is often a weak minded individual who preys on those weaker than themselves after have broken the other persons spirit. Keep your chin up and stay in contact with the group. Sent from my SM-G935V using the BariatricPal App

My dear Your mate is insecure and is projecting onto you. If you need this surgery to save your life and be here for your child perhaps help him to see that it so you can be here for him too, but name calling and put downs never encourage or build anyone up in fact the more he puts you down the more success you are going to have, so he may want to stop it with the insecurities and give you a reason to stay with him. It's been said you catch more flies with honey well maybe you need to remind him of this so he can change his tone. I wish you luck and I am here for you, trust me I have been through it all and now my husband and i am excited about my pending surgery and all of the fun we are going to have with or without the extra skin. Sent from my SM-G935V using the BariatricPal App