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Hi all, I really like reading on hear the things that have helped others succeed because what I am after. I want better for my life. I know I didn't get enough fluids in last two days my spouse of 4 years just left me on Friday (due to hidden drug issue & pushing him to change life with group, but he doesn't want to give up drug & his family does drugs too so family bonding). He had quit for almost 2 years but starting again when went back to school to better myself behind back. I suspected but know how sometimes don't want to deal with right away. I am determined to do what is best for me & my life & will graduate college in December. Working on last class now. I don't have any desire to not stick to dr plan but didn't get in fluids I should have friday & Saturday -getting back on track today & going to church too today for support. I am thinking I will be ok as long as make sure get close or hit 64 oz starting today-on. Just concerned cause know didn't get enough fluids last two days & don't know if should drink more then 64 oz today if can & body wants more Water? I know I will be ok. I have awesome family, close friends & church friends that are very supportive. Funny -my parents coming down to spend time after church & my mom said will bring a healthy salad & chicken for lunch if sounds good to you. I laughed, had to remind her on full liquids but they could have. They are still in shock too so are friends cause they love my husband too so are all my close friends & church friends that were trying to help him. All are praying for both & all know harder for me cause 1 wk post-op tomorrow but I know I can succeed cause this is for me & what I want to do. He was best husband when wasn't high. Just praying God helps change him to have a better life drug-related even without me. His mom was one got him started on smoking pot at 11 as a coping skill when had problem & taught all kids that. She takes every drug can get hands on today. It more important to him to be able to get high with family then be with me. Going to support group again starting this Wednesday to help me through emotional stuff & strengthen myself. Has anyone else had spouse leave 1 week post-op & what helped them stay on track through it all? Thanks -sorry so long. I am still veryblessed in life with or without my husband. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

Thanks lelewatson. So glad to hear you have better guy too. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

Thanks Mindyme. Helps knowing you got through that with support from others. Thanks for sharing & prayers. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

Thanks lelewatson. You are right. I just want to concentrate on myself. I am proud of myself for having surgery to be healthier. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

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Thanks Christinamo7. Sorry about your dad too & thanks for prayers. You are right forgot about IV fluids. Yes I am getting back on track starting today & nice to know had a hard time too getting in Protein drinks & Water for a bit due to emotions. I plan on getting them in today & forward. Thanks again for reaponse. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

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Great job. Love looking at people's pics. They inspire me. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

I just had my week check up today - was told no one really gets 64oz in the first week or so, just drink as best you can. It made me feel a lot better to know I was normal. I work on getting down a 32oz bottle of Powerade zero, as well as 2 shakes and 8 oz cups of Water in between. I'm not always successful, but they assured me it's normal. Hope you heal fast!Thanks rolosmom7. Yes you are right. Nurse called yesterday & told me the same thing. She said gradually will get easier. each day it is getting easier to get more fluids in. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

Thanks for the tips KristenLe. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

Hi all new to site so I hope I joined thread correctly. I just had sleeve done on 09/20, so just got home yesterday. Trying to concentrate now on getting the 64 oz in. Have had hiccups so realize why & slow down more, has helped. Just sore still, worst pain is still some left shoulder pain from gas during surgery? Any body else have & suggestions that helped. Walked over mile between day 1 & 2 in hospital & got better but some pain still there. Thanks for setting up thread. Good luck to 09/21 & 09/22 people. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App

Good luck. Think you have the right attitude for success. Sent from my SM-S902L using the BariatricPal App