Sorry to hear about your rough experience. I always just try to remember that BETTER (And LIGHTER) times are ahead. I just had all my family over for a cookout. The food always smells great BUT I know my limits. I try to prepare things that I CAN have (in the "mushies" phase). I am ALWAYS full after two or three bites and by the time I allow digestion, my cravings for anymore has passed!!! I also make sure to have a protien shake before I go to events and/or out with the family. That seems to keep me from feeling hungry AND down about others around me being able to eat (which I have to admit, now secretly makes me grossed out a little bit watching now...LOL). I agree with others that talking to your husband and family is a great idea. NO ONE needs to police you....YOU'VE GOT THIS!!! Good luck with everything!