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SharBear617
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Had one yesterday...was out shopping with my daughter and realized I could get clothes from the "regular" sizes and am no longer confined to a tiny corner of the store for the "plus" larger sizes. Yay! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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1st day of head hunger
SharBear617 replied to lkcnewbeginnings's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Great job recognizing head hunger, and great attitude and solution for dealing with it! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
Feeling frustrated
SharBear617 replied to Bakergrl214's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Excellent info Babbs, thanks! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
From what I've read, after about 2 years post op, there isn't much difference in excess weight lost between rny vs sleevers. My bmi before surgery was 42, but I went with rny because I also had gerd, and now 6 months post op, no reflux. But, I was looking to lose (and needing to quite frankly) at least 80 to 100 lbs total, however, I was told I could probably only expect the tool that surgery gives me to be responsible for somewhere around 65 to 75 lbs of weight loss....if I wanted more, that would be all my doing. Take your time, and decide what's best for you. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Finally... Hunger Hits at Week 7 Post Op!
SharBear617 replied to mylighthouse's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Agree with the Snacks above, and would add Protein bars (but watch calories, because some are lower and considered snacks, and some are upwards of 300 calories considered meal replacements), a few apple slices with a little Peanut Butter, and one of my favorites, Perky Turkey Jerky, YUM!!! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
Piercings
SharBear617 replied to BubblesOhSoSleeved's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Do you mean during surgery? You'll be getting intubated to go under general anesthesia....I can't imagine any anesthesiologist or nurse anesthetist that would allow you to keep ANYTHING in your mouth....too much risk for you and consequently them. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
Hahaha...great question! Yeah, it's fine, like CStoned says, there's other waste our bodies get rid of, as well as even if you're mainly taking in fluids, that too still creates poop. After reading how many people have trouble with constipation after surgery, I personally feel amazingly lucky to still be regular after surgery, phew, just hope it lasts! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Super cute, you look awesome! Cool way to ring in a new year! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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I agree....try not to over weigh yourself or you'll go nutty over it. Your setting in for your 3 week stall (definately a thing) so try not to panic. The losing will resume. My important rule of thumb? I never weigh myself more than one time in a day (unless I weigh first thing in the morning, then shortly after have a large BM - sorry, crude I know, but I'm stepping back on that scale if I'm certain there are ounces that I've lost in that toilet!). If I step back on the scale sooner than 1 week is up, and I see the number stuck, or <gulp> has gone up, I just don't let it register. I wait until I'm sure the weight has started dropping again. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Oh So Tired!
SharBear617 replied to SeattleSleever's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I went back to work after 2 weeks, and yes, fatigue was a big thing....didn't matter that I was getting my Vitamins in, etc...was just pooped. But just muddle through, try to get as much sleep as you can. Also, once you start being able to get more movement in, that helps too. You're just recovering from a surgery, so don't feel like there's something wrong...the energy will eventually come back. Somedays it's almost crazy energy, but keep following docs orders, and you will be feeling better! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
My taste buds have changed
SharBear617 replied to jack morris 122716's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Nope, it's a real thing jack. After surgery, I could not tolerate the taste of plain Water, even though I was a big water drinker prior to surgery for years and years. It tasted like pure metal. But about 2 months post op, that stopped and now I'm back to loving plain water again. It's a wild ride, just hang on and don't let go! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
Hhhmmmm....decaf herbal teas? I love some of the flavors there are and would give some variety? And you could control the sweetness level. Just remember....this too shall pass! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Come on in, the water's fine! Good luck and healthy healing! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Unfortunately his bedside manner most likely won't be any different than what you've already experienced. But...when it comes to surgeons, while it's great if they're the "total package" of great skill and interaction....I'll take great skill any day of the week and twice on Sundays. Now, if we're talking therapists, or primary care doc, then good bedside manner is a bit more important to most. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Great NSVs! I love that my feet don't hurt as soon as I'm out of bed in the mornings. Digging being comfortable crossing my legs again (and not needing the assistance of my arm lifting my leg to cross them). And as you said....loving that food doesn't have the same irrational pull it had on me before surgery. Happy too that the way I look on the outside is starting to match how strong and happy I feel on the inside. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Worried about loose skin and other appearance issues?
SharBear617 replied to LittleBill's topic in The Lounge
Bahahahahaha!! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
Powerade Zero, low cal Gatorade Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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2 days Post-Op Question
SharBear617 replied to fallenfeatherstudio's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Sorry, no idea why my post didn't post! Advice: stay hydrated, use a light, plain lotion on your lips with no fragrance etc, and top off with vaseline. Ditch the lip balm, it causes a vicious cycle causing you to need more and more (look it up, seriously not good in the long run). Good luck! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
2 days Post-Op Question
SharBear617 replied to fallenfeatherstudio's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
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Happy Christmas Everyone
SharBear617 replied to adriant's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Awesome point to make about no "lose weight" resolution for the new year!! I'm just over 6 months post rny, still losing and knowing I still will be for a while. Thanks! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
I also gave up caffeine and carbonation prior to surgery. I didn't consume that much of either, but in getting past it pre-op, it was one less thing to deal with post-op, leaving me able to focus more on healing. Congrats on the date! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Surgery Date January 30th and now I'm Nervous (plus haven't made up my mind which surgery is right for me)!
SharBear617 replied to Hollyhock's topic in Tell Your Weight Loss Surgery Story
@Hollyhock...I definately don't think you need to hear this, but I've gotta say it...for someone who has had life throw a lot of crap your way, you have managed to overcome so very much....wow. The decision can be hard, but it has to be yours because it's so very personal. You are obviously trying to make sure you make the "right" choice, and I've no doubts you will. Seems like your gut (no pun intended!) is telling you sleeve from what you've posted. With either surgery, honestly a LOT of the work is mental, and you are going to have a good outcome as long as you remain true to what has gotten you to going down this path, which is being honest with yourself and showing that you have an amazing ability to overcome whatever life sends you. You're going to come out a winner whichever you choose, because you're already doing the mental work of this journey. Best of luck with whatever you decide, and thanks for sharing your journey to this point. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
Also try holding a pillow or something in front of you on your belly when you get up from a seated or laying down position to help "splint" the incisions. Some have good results with an abdominal binder for that. Helps with the tugging on the incision which can help with the sensation you're describing. Happy healing! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App
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Surgery is 12-27 and I am so nervous..help
SharBear617 replied to harmony5001's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
@harmony5001...just breathe...keep reminding yourself we are always much stronger then we sometimes give ourselves credit for...and taking this step to get back in control of YOUR future, takes a lot of courage, so pat yourself on the back for having that courage. I'm just past 6 months post rny, and have zero regrets. Life will get better and better for you; you just have to be willing to allow it to be, and saying yes to this path is a big, courageous step. Good luck, and look forward to 2017 putting you back in control! Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App -
Skipping Christmas Parties
SharBear617 replied to _Mini_Me_'s topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
This holiday season is my first since my surgery (June 2016), and I recently realized that I apparently have a much, much stronger association with food at Christmas time than I do at Thanksgiving (somewhat odd considering Thanksgiving is pretty much all about food whereas Christmas is many more things). At Thanksgiving, I felt very in control, no temptations for overindulging at all. Once December hit, big difference for me in the amount of willpower I've had to muster up to control urges for things that haven't tempted me up to this point. I feel really good that I have kept them in check, but it is definately showing me how much habit, history, and memories come into play when it comes to how and what we eat. Sent from my SM-G928V using the BariatricPal App